【周りにいると危険】フレネミーの特徴/友達を装う敵の考えていることがこれ
"We're friends, but there's someone who always makes me feel uneasy." They could be an enemy pretending to be a friend. Do you know the word frenemy? They think they're friends, but their relationship is really that of an enemy. They're the type who always attacks you. It's necessary to think of this type of person as something other than a friend. If you just look at the relationship, they're definitely not friends. So what are the thoughts of a frenemy? We've talked about them in detail. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We're giving away a limited article on steps to living as an affable lone wolf. Click here for details: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Theme 00:33 ① Thinking that you can be forgiven because you're friends 02:39 ② Viewing them as rivals too much 04:37 ③ Taking too much joy in other people's misfortunes 06:59 ④ Thinking that your friends are people you can use 09:32 ⑤ Using friendships to gather rumors 12:05 ⑥ Replacing aggression 14:14 ⑦ Not thinking about the inconvenience to others 16:24 Summary: What I want you to remember in particular ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Limited videos that reveal the worries of families, parents, and couples, all available to watch + daily awareness The words of the people will reach you YouTube membership is here ▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to live a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶List of books here https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●【Keep your distance! 】Characteristics of people you should never make friends with/Troubles increase because of close relationships • 【距離を置くべき!】決して友達にしてはいけない人物の特徴/近い関係だからトラブルが増... ●【Lurking all around you】7 characteristics of people with low mental ages and immature people who attack when dissatisfied/What types are common among family and friends? • 【身近にひそむ】不満で攻撃をする、精神年齢の低い・幼い人の特徴7選/家族・友達にも多... ●They take away things because they are "good friends". Characteristics of friends who are actually using you • 『仲良し』だからと奪う。実はあなたを利用している友達の特徴 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of each diagnostic test for HSPs: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●[Archived version] What to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The best way to work alone. When you're having trouble with relationships, try living as a "friendly lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, according to a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, a relaxed lifestyle) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Qualified as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through 15 years of parallel work from manufacturing to teaching, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, he started a counseling business. Currently, he mainly communicates and works as a writer about human relationship problems. ●Click here for profile details https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about your problems and aims to solve them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor. Please understand. Please also see the channel description. #human relationships #psychology #frenemy
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