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"After all, it's about relationships. I wonder if I should force myself to increase them..." There are times when you think like that. The opposite is true for relationships. Ultimately, it's important not to force yourself. Forced relationships will cause stress. And it will be harder to leave. People who are not good at relationships tend to get the distance wrong. We've summarized the important points, so please listen. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We're giving away a limited article on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. More details here: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Theme 00:50 ① Relationships are costly 03:06 ② More hassles 05:07 ③ Good relationships lead to happiness 07:19 ④ Self-growth is likely to be delayed 09 :18 ⑤ It's easier to live in the security of the majority 11:38 ⑥ You can't control other people 14:00 ⑦ You'll also have more interactions with troublesome people 16:14 Summary: What you should especially remember ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ -- Exclusive videos that explain the problems of families, parents and children, and couples, all available to watch + receive words of awareness every day YouTube Member Click here for Barship ▶   / @cocoyowa   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to live a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related and educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[End] The reason why relationships end / This is the change that makes people leave, which no one will tell you!    • 【終焉】人間関係の終わりが訪れる原因/誰も教えてくれない、人が離れる変化がこれだ!   ● [Keep your distance] 7 characteristics of people who tire you out when you get involved / What are the actions and thoughts that cause mental exhaustion?    • 【距離を取るべき】関わると疲れてしまう人の特徴7選/気疲れの原因となる行動・考えとは?   ● [Don't let your life be taken away] Here's what's important about relationships in your 40s! /Don't let people who don't matter get in your way    • 【人生を奪われない】40代からの人間関係はここが大切!/どうでもいい人に踏み込まれて...   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSP and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of each diagnostic test for HSP: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●[Archived version] What to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The ultimate solo technique. When you're having trouble with relationships, live as a "friendly lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, according to a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, a relaxed lifestyle) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Qualified as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through 15 years of parallel work from manufacturing to teaching, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, he started a counseling business. Currently, he mainly communicates and works as a writer about human relationship problems. ●Click here for profile details https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about your problems and aims to solve them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor. Please understand. Please also see the channel description. #Human relations #Distance #Social interaction

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