Healed Avoidant Exposes Why Avoidants Suddenly Lose Feelings (The Ick)

► Build stable, secure relationships without the push and pull: https://understandable.net (ad) Welcome to today's episode! Today I try to break down the Avoidant Ick (Flaw Zoom). I also explain the link between the flaw zoom, high standards and why avoidants lose feelings. ► Links and Resources: Why Avoidants Have No Clue What They Need Video:    • Healed Avoidant Explains Why Avoidants Hav...   ► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform! YouTube: ⁠   / @understandablepodcast   Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQL... Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast... Amazon Music: ⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee35... ► Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Understanding Avoidant Ick 04:55 The Flaw Zoom Mechanism 13:44 The Three-Level Filter 16:45 Two Protection System Types 22:14 Societal Influence on Attraction 31:14 Five Pillars of Relational Needs 37:23 Love Versus Compatibility 40:43 Defining Your Standards ► Reach Out To Me :) E-Mail: [email protected] ► Hi, my name is Robert! I make videos about how to build stable, secure relationships without losing yourself or waiting forever for the “perfect” partner. :) ► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

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