The Change Triangle: Core Emotions, Healing, and Coming Home to Yourself

So many of us walk through life feeling anxious, overwhelmed by feeling, or just...disconnected. In this powerful conversation, we explore why—and how avoiding core emotions like sadness, anger, fear, and even joy can keep us stuck in misery and block us from getting to calm and vitality. I share the Change Triangle, a simple yet life-changing map that helps us move from avoidance and protection to clarity, calm, and connection. If you’ve ever felt emotionally overwhelmed, numb, or pressured to “just get over it,” this episode is for you. Because real healing doesn’t come from pushing feelings away—it comes from turning inward, with compassion and courage. Find FREE resources and print a FREE copy of the Change Triangle at hilaryjacobshendel.com. To take a deep dive into the Change Triangle read "It’s Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect With Your Authentic Self" (Random House & Penguin UK): https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/bo... For parents interested in Emotional Health read "Parents Have Feelings, Too A Guide to Navigating Your Emotions So You And Your Family Can Thrive" https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/bo... Thank you to Marina Triner, Somatic Coach and Host of the Podcast Deep Within. You can find her here: https://marinayt.com/podcast #emotionalhealth #thechangetriangle #emotions #emotionalhealing #traumainformedcare

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