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In this video, psychiatrist Yulia Bukhanovskaya and I discuss borderline personality disorder (BPD) in detail: its symptoms, fear of abandonment, emotional instability, mood swings, feelings of inner emptiness, impulsive and suicidal behavior, anger, and self-harm. We explore how someone with BPD perceives themselves and the world, why idealization and devaluation occur in relationships, how borderline personality disorder differs from bipolar disorder, where the line is drawn between borderline traits and personality disorder, and when someone with BPD truly needs to see a psychiatrist or begin psychotherapy. We also discuss what to do if your partner has borderline personality disorder. 📌BPD Test: https://psytests.org/diag/lasplr.html 📌Anxiety Relief Guide: https://t.me/dmitrygoodbiz/2746 Single Emergency Helpline Phone: 102, 112 — for all mobile operators. Free crisis helpline in Russia Phone: +7 (800) 333-44-34 The main tool in CBT is the SERMS: https://boosty.to/dmitryantipov/posts... Yulia's social media:   / bukhanovskaia_   https://t.me/Bukhanovskaiapsy 📌Access to all my psychological materials on Boost: https://boosty.to/dmitryantipov 📌Access to all my psychological materials on Tribute (international cards accepted): https://t.me/tribute/app?startapp=sr6v 📌How to access the closed Telegram channel Antipov+: https://t.me/dmitrygoodbiz/2640 My name is Dmitry Antipov: I have a Master's degree in Psychology and am a member of the Association of Cognitive-Behavioral Psychotherapy. 📌Schedule a consultation: https://t.me/DmitryPsych 📌Consultation details: https://dmitryantipov.ru Timecodes: 00:00 - The cycle of falling in love for someone with BPD 00:30 - How someone with BPD perceives the world 01:01 - Why someone with BPD dissolves in another person; fear of rejection 02:41 - How someone with BPD behaves: from childhood to adulthood 06:04 - Is it genetics and innate traits? 07:14 - The Line Between Borderline Traits and Personality Disorder 11:27 - The Most Painful Areas for People with BPD 12:15 - I Want a Relationship, But It's Even Worse in One 15:28 - What to Do If Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend Has BPD 20:20 - Responsibility for Your Own and Other People's Emotions and Feelings 22:30 - Why People Break Up After Psychotherapy 26:12 - Borderline Personality Disorder Test: Fear of Abandonment 27:40 - Idealization and Devaluation of a Girlfriend/Boyfriend 28:43 - Unstable Self-Esteem and Lack of Identity 29:16 - Impulsive Behavior 31:21 - Suicidal Behavior 35:28 - Mood Swings (NOT to be Confused with Bipolar Disorder) 37:27 - Feelings of Emptiness and Inner Void 40:08 - Anger and Autoaggression 41:16 - Paranoid thoughts and suspiciousness 43:40 - When is it time to see a psychiatrist?