Finding Your Place in the System

Every one of us is part of countless systems: families, workplaces, friendships, organizations, and communities. But how do you know if you're contributing in a healthy way? And what happens when someone else doesn't believe you are? In this episode, Gary and Birga explore systems thinking, the importance of honestly evaluating your own role, and how curiosity can uncover what defensiveness often hides. Along the way, they discuss asking better questions, responding to difficult feedback, and recognizing that healthy systems require everyone to keep learning.