КОНФЛИКТ ИГОРЯ И СЕРГЕЯ // Как один и тот же кризис ломает жизнь по-разному

Artem Karpavichus is a practicing psychologist, a Master's degree holder in the Department of Psychotherapy and Psychological Counseling, and author. 🎓 Lecture "First Impressions"    • ПЕРВОЕ ВПЕЧАТЛЕНИЕ // Как нравиться людям      • ПЕРВОЕ ВПЕЧАТЛЕНИЕ // Как нравиться людям      • ПЕРВОЕ ВПЕЧАТЛЕНИЕ // Как нравиться людям   📕 MY BOOK "Break Up, Can't Stay" published by AST is available at any bookstore, on WB, and on Litres: https://www.litres.ru/book/artem-karp... Why does one person go to war with the world, while the other hides in a suit? I'm exploring two radical ways to resolve the same internal conflict: "I'm different, and the world doesn't accept me." Igor Sinyak chose war. Sergey Grigoryev-Apollonov chose mimicry. One feeds on hate and projects a grand dame air. The other retreated into Excel spreadsheets and a corporate career, and then, after 30, tried to break free. In the lecture: — Where does Sinyak get such confidence despite his lack of status; — Why does Grigoryev-Apollonov appear reserved, even living in Paris; — How childhood bullying shapes the adult psyche; — Why parental support determines who chooses war and who postpones conflict; — What to do if you recognize yourself in this conflict. Enjoy watching! And give me a like—it'll be great positive reinforcement for me 😉 ⏱ Timestamps 00:00 A woman in a red dress and men no one will notice 00:14 Two friends with the same connection, but different crises 00:32 Sinyak's main crisis: "I'm not like everyone else, and the world doesn't accept me" 00:52 Grigoriev-Apollonov's main crisis: "I've become like everyone else, but I don't accept myself as such" 02:14 Sinyak as a grande dame: where does confidence come from without status 04:12 The source of Sinyak's confidence: the belief that he's not loved 06:40 Hate as a breeding ground and excremental fireworks 09:12 Other ways to resolve conflict: breaking yourself, pretending, mimicking 10:45 Sergey Grigoriev-Apollonov: thirty years on a string 13:10 A String Trace: Why Inner Freedom Didn't Come with a Move to Paris 3:30 PM Practical Advice: How to Avoid Repeating Their Path 5:50 PM Parental Love as a Resource for War or Mimicry 7:20 PM If You Recognize Yourself: The Sooner, the Better 9:30 PM The Price of Victory: Pizza Night, Sex, and Robberies 11:30 PM Bullying at School and the Advocacy of Acceptance of Otherness 8:10 PM Link to the lecture "First Impression" in the description See you next Saturday at 10:00 AM! 👍 LIKE, remember? 😉 The lecture was produced by: Script, presenter — Artem Karpavichus https://karpavichus.com Video design, SFX, VFX — Sasha Pareto https://t.me/sasha_pareto #psychology #artemkarpavichus #igorsky #sergeygrigorievapolonov #identity #self-acceptance #bullying #mimicry #internalconflict #personalitypsychology #firstimpression