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"I'm always worried about other people and it makes me feel uneasy..." There are times when you are concerned about what other people think of you. You may also be concerned about what other people say and do. You should try to ignore other people more and live your life. You are different from other people. Just by accepting that things won't go your way, you will stop worrying about what other people say and do. We hope you find this useful. [Kokoreta ⇒ Sign up for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We are currently giving away a limited article on steps to living as an affable lone wolf. More details here: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of Contents▼ 0:00 Today's Theme 0:40 ① Put the spotlight on yourself 3:19 ② Don't interfere in other people's lives 5:11 ③ Gain decision-making skills 7:27 ④ Don't judge people by their parts 9:56 ⑤ Limit your relationships more 12:26 ⑥ It's okay to be different 14:50 ⑦ It's okay to be a little selfish and self-satisfied 17:37 Summary: Today Key points ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --You can watch all exclusive videos that teach you about human relationships and how to live + receive words of awareness every day YouTube membership is here ▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon "Mental fatigue disappears How to talk like a sensitive person" https://amzn.asia/d/fWSf2NS ▼Amazon "I've decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A community for sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Cocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆You can learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. First, you will learn how to improve your self-esteem (self-affirmation), and then you can build relationships with peace of mind. It is a hybrid community of learning and interaction that can be used by people who have somehow failed in relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About consultation and information on how to live as an HSP ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and consultation service mainly for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 6,000 people have subscribed to it so far. A weekly e-mail magazine with 20,000 to 50,000 characters of information on human relationships, HSP, HSS-type HSP, and HSE. Various contents are available, such as limited live performances, limited radio, limited videos, and consultation forms. Please also use it if you want to consult Ryota about your problems. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSPs...work and family relationships are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. --Click here for details and registration↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Won 1st place in the 2020 MagMag Grand Prize Newcomer Award. Won 1st place in the 2021 MagMag Grand Prize by them award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● To protect your boundaries: How to prepare and deal with people you don't want to meet • 自分の境界線を守るために:会いたくない人への心構え・対処法 ● [7 items to check!] How to maintain relationships and declutter as you age • 【7項目でチェック!】年齢と共に人間関係をメンテナンスする・断捨離する方法 ● "Behaving in a way that makes you likeable can have the opposite effect" 7 ways to make people less likely to dislike you https://youtu.be/ Vr3RUkWOCFg ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog to help HSP and sensitive people live better https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of each diagnostic test for HSP: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●The ultimate solo technique. When you're having trouble with relationships, try living as a "friendly lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, according to a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, a relaxed lifestyle) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender, etc. during university (Degree: Arts) He is also a severe HSP, and has experienced five job changes and relationship problems. Holds multiple titles such as mental psychology counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. Father of two children. -Runs "HSP Textbook", which aims to provide a consultation service and lifestyle information for HSPs. -His books are on sale nationwide from KADOKAWA, SB Creative, and Asuka Publishing. -Ru...

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