唔係最叻嗰個 但從冇諗過停 | SpotiTalk | 湯怡 Kathy Yuen | Tea Talk with Toby | Ep 53 | 最難不是做好 而是每天都做到

呢集podcast我邀請咗湯怡 Kathy做我嘉賓。 如果你睇過Kathy嘅訪問，會發現佢係好怕醜、好內向嗰種人。唔係冷漠或拒人於千里嘅嗰種怕醜，而係真係好謹慎，怕講錯嘢、怕得罪人、怕被誤解。 可能唔多講嘢嘅人，反而係我哋最需要聆聽嘅人。因為唔係個個有故事嘅人都識得大聲講出嚟。有啲人要時間、要安全感，先肯打開心扉。而當佢哋終於肯講出嚟嘅時候，講出嘅唔係經過彩排，都唔係修飾過，係真實嘅。呢個就係Kathy俾我嘅感覺。 訪問頭十分鐘，佢仲係好謹慎，每句都想過度過。但當我問到佢做媽媽之後嘅改變，佢成個節奏唔同晒。 佢話生女之後最大嘅轉變係耐性。以前佢好急，咩都要快，但對住個女，佢發現自己要慢落嚟，要好有耐性咁教佢、陪佢。 佢覺得自己唔係一個好媽媽，成日覺得陪個女唔夠。夜晚返到屋企個女已經瞓咗，佢會覺得自己成日掛住做嘢，覺得自己好差。 因為時間唔多，佢可以做嘅就係朝早同個女食早餐。返學前半個鐘，坐埋一齊傾吓偈，問佢今日想做咩，呢個係佢成日最開心嘅時候。 佢唔係一個完美嘅媽媽，但我覺得佢係一個每日都好努力嘅媽媽。 講到工作，佢提起間餅店。佢話係老公推佢去開嘅，因為知佢鍾意整餅，但其實佢好驚做唔嚟。不過因為係自己鍾意嘅嘢，所以到而家都係用心經營，做自己鍾意做嘅事。 至於演戲，好多人以為佢已經退咗落嚟，但其實佢從來冇諗過息影。佢話就算呢幾年機會少咗、電影少咗、好多嘢都變咗，佢都從來冇放低過「演員」呢個身份。佢只係知道而家嘅環境唔可以再坐喺度等機會。所以佢開始做自己嘅平台、拍唔同嘅內容、試唔同嘅嘢，唔係為咗轉行，而係想令大家記得：佢仲喺度，仲準備緊，仲想演。佢話佢唔係最叻嗰個，但從來冇諗過停。 In this episode, I invited Kathy Yuen. She's very shy and introverted—not cold, just cautious, afraid of saying the wrong thing or being misunderstood. Sometimes the quietest people are the ones we most need to hear. They just need time and safety to open up. And when they do, it's real. That's Kathy. The first ten minutes she was careful, but when I asked about becoming a mom, everything changed. She said having her daughter taught her patience. She used to rush, now she slows down. She admits she doesn't feel like a "good" mom. She worries she doesn't spend enough time with her daughter, who's often asleep when she gets home. But what she can do is simple: have breakfast together. That half-hour, just chatting before school, is her happiest moment. She's not perfect, but she tries hard every day. At work, she opened a bakery. Her husband encouraged her because she loves making cakes, though she was terrified. Still, she takes it seriously. As for acting, most people think she's retired. She's not. There have been fewer opportunities, so she started her own platform to create content—not to switch careers, but to remind people: she's still here. She still wants to act. She may not be the best, but she's never thought about stopping.