Why Keeping A List Of Wrongs Kills Intimacy And How To Let It Go

Are you keeping score in your marriage? In this episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, we’re talking about how keeping a list of wrongs is quietly destroying relationships. You can’t say you forgive… and still make them pay. We break down how offense builds over time, how replaying the past creates distance, and why love cannot grow in a scorekeeping relationship. If you’ve been holding onto things, bringing up the past, or struggling to truly forgive… this conversation will hit home. In this episode: Why keeping score kills intimacy The difference between forgiveness and punishment How replaying the past keeps you stuck Practical ways to let go and move forward Watch the full episode and learn how to build a healthier, freer marriage. NEXT STEPS 💬 Comment your biggest takeaway 📤 Share this with someone who needs it 🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every Thursday RESOURCES https://www.kenandtabatha.com 📩 Ask us questions or share your testimony: [email protected] 🌐 Connect With Us: Websites https://www.kenclaytor.com https://www.tabathaclaytor.com https://www.myalivechurch.org Instagram kenclaytor tabathaclaytor myalivechurch TikTok @Ken_Claytor @Tabathaclaytor Facebook / pastorkenclaytor / pastortabathaclaytor / myalivechurch