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📔 Baltasar Gracián [How to Protect Yourself in a Rude World] Kyobo Book Centre: https://vo.la/lSY9PpX Yes24: https://vo.la/5cOU7MZ Aladdin: https://vo.la/GdnOIQ9 Kakao Gift: https://vo.la/WpoU4bK Hawaii Life Lessons    / @hawaiilifelesson   Today's Guest: Director of Psychiatry Choi Myung-ki "Why do I keep becoming an easy pushover even though I live a good life?" Are you losing sleep again today because of someone's rude remark? Together with Psychiatrist Director Choi Myung-ki, we seek the answer by borrowing the insights of 'Baltasar Gracián,' the philosopher who inspired Schopenhauer and Nietzsche 400 years ago. Modern society, where rudeness is fired even more boldly while hiding behind phone calls, KakaoTalk messages, and comments. Could it be that we have been giving away our 'handles' to others too easily? Beyond simply being a nice person, I reveal the techniques of 'distancing' and 'refusal' that allow you to protect yourself elegantly without being consumed by the world. 00:00 Highlights: Humans become rude when they don't look ahead 01:15 What did I do wrong? The answer lies in the 'handle' 02:26 Why 400-year-old wisdom is needed in South Korea in 2026 05:49 The psychological mechanism behind modern people becoming more rude than before 07:48 Why do I feel like I'm the only one losing out even though I've lived a nice life? 10:30 The Process of Unconditional Kindness Turning You into a Pushover (feat. The Movie Dogville) 15:52 The Meaning of Becoming a 'Human Without a Handle' 18:36 No One Can Carelessly Throw a Stone into Deep Water 24:31 To You Who Cannot Say No for Fear of Breaking the Relationship #SelfDevelopment #Relationships #HawaiiMansion #ChoiMyungKi #BaltasarGracian #HowToDealWithRudePeopleWithASmile #HowToBoostSelfEsteem #DealingWithGaslighting #EscapeBeingAPushover #Psychology #LifeAdvice #ArtOfManaging #2026SelfDevelopment