POR QUE QUEM DIZ QUE AMA MACHUCA TANTO? | Marcos Lacerda, psicólogo

There's a silent paradox in relationships: The more secure we feel, the more we allow ourselves to lower our guard—and that's precisely when we start to hurt. In today's video, psychologist Marcos Lacerda talks about this paradox of emotional security: why, often, those who feel loved, accepted, and secure are the ones who hurt the most, not out of malice, but by relaxing boundaries, unloading frustrations, and acting without the same care they would have at the beginning of the relationship. You will understand how intimacy, emotional comfort, and lack of awareness can transform love into a place of carelessness—and why emotional maturity is what prevents security from turning into emotional negligence. 👉 Watch until the end and reflect: in your relationship, is security generating care… or a license to hurt? #reflection #love #relationships This type of bond involves fear, guilt, emotional manipulation, and a deep confusion about what is love and what is abuse. Many people remain stuck for years because they can't identify what's happening—or because they feel too exhausted to react. If you're experiencing something similar, watch until the end. This might be the first step toward regaining your emotional freedom. #insiderstore #selfesteem #mindset 📘Buy and also discover Marcos Lacerda's novel in the book 'LIBÉLULA' here - http://www.marcoslacerda.com.br/ ________ Discover Marcos Lacerda's other books: 📕- To Love, To Unlove, To Love Again - about relationships 📙- Loving Yourself: A Journey in Search of Yourself - about self-esteem 📘- To Love and Be Free Is Possible - finding balance in love 📗- Interview With Loneliness - everything about loneliness and solitude BUY ALL 3 TOGETHER IN THE LOVE TRILOGY BOX SET https://www.vreditora.com.br/latitude... From Editora VR - Latitude Imprint - Now in bookstores, or through Amazon, Submarino, Americanas.com, Shoptime, Magalu and many others! Click this link To purchase: 📲 For more information, visit: https://linktr.ee/nosdaquestao 🔵 And the "For Baby" mug is available at http://www.lojanosdaquestao.com/