一緒にいると疲れる…実は「マイナスの友達関係」7選

"They're my friend, but being with them makes me tired..." Do you know someone like that? That person might not be what you'd call a friend. Of course, friends aren't perfect, and there will be conflicts from time to time. That aside, it can be exhausting to feel frustrated every day. If that person has the mindset of taking advantage of you, it's precisely because they're your friend that they'll keep taking away your love. We've talked about this in detail. --Watch exclusive videos to learn more about relationships and life. Receive daily words of insight. YouTube Membership here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ▼Table of Contents▼ 0:00 Today's Theme 0:47 ① Using you as a tool for self-affirmation 2:47 ② Aggressive and controlling 4:37 ③ Leading you to your weaknesses 6:36 ④ Pursuing only your own satisfaction 8:48 ⑤ Making others do everything 11:15 ⑥ Not considering other people's circumstances 13:15 ⑦ Thinking you can get away with it just because you're friends 15:17 Summary: Today's Key Points ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon Book: "Emotional Fatigue Disappears" "How Sensitive People Speak" https://amzn.asia/d/fWSf2NS ▼Amazon "I've Decided to Stop Being Controlled"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A Community for Sensitive People ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Cocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆Learn from various experts with HSP traits and interact with fellow participants. First, learn how to improve your self-esteem, and then build relationships with confidence. This is a hybrid community of learning and interaction, perfect for those who have struggled with interpersonal relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About Advice and Lifestyle Information for HSPs ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and Advice Service Primarily for HSPs [HSP Textbook] Over 6,000 subscribers to date. A weekly newsletter with 20,000-50,000 characters of information on relationships, HSPs, HSS-type HSPs, and HSEs. Various content is available, including exclusive live shows, exclusive radio shows, exclusive videos, and a consultation form. If you'd like to discuss your concerns with Ryota, please use this newsletter. I'll explain each one in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSPs, such as work or family-related issues, are also welcome. I'll answer as an advisor. --Click here for details and registration: ↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Winner of the 2020 MaguMagu Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Winner of the 2021 MagMag by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● "No need to put up with it!" 7 relationships that aren't actually friends    • 「我慢する必要なし!」実は友達ではない人間関係7選   ● "Is that really a friend?" 7 points to consider when reassessing friendships for HSPs    • 「それって友達?」HSPさんが友達関係を見直す判断ポイント7選   ● I want a lifelong friend! Characteristics of people HSPs especially want to cherish    / p_6f   DNgVBXk ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles worth reading ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● A blog to help HSPs and sensitive people live better lives https://cocoyowa.com/ ● A summary of HSP diagnostic tests: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ● The ultimate solo technique. When you're struggling with relationships, live like a "friendly lone wolf." A counselor shares the secret to avoiding making enemies. https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle/Long-Laid-Back Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender studies, etc. during college (Bachelor of Arts). A severe HSP himself, he has changed jobs five times and experienced relationship difficulties. He holds multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children. Runs "The HSP Textbook," a consultation center and lifestyle resource for HSPs. His books are currently on sale nationwide through KADOKAWA, SB Creative, and Asuka Publishing. Runs "Cocoiro Salon," a community for HSPs, and holds various events. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ *HSP is a temperament, a psychological term used to describe people who are highly sensitive to their environment. (Easily influenced by their environment, for better or worse.) Just because you're HSP doesn't mean you have a hard time living or are "this or that." This channel is solely for discuss...