I Don't Know if I Can Handle My Husband’s Vulnerability HMAY Ep. 260

PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY: https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yoursel... Is wanting vulnerability the same as being ready to hold it? A newlywed (90-something days in!) loves her husband but admits his past trauma makes openness slow. Then the Holy Spirit hits her with two checks: “Can you handle what he gives you?” and “Steward well what he gives you.” We unpack what “safe space” really costs—capacity, patience, and practice. 💛 We talk: 🧩 Capacity ≠ desire: Wanting all the feelings isn’t the same as being able to carry them—growth over pass/fail. 📦 Steward what you have: Treat disclosures like a fragile package—follow “handling instructions,” even if unspoken. 🤫 Sometimes love is quiet: Hold space, resist fixing, let him finish, respond later with care. 🧑🏾‍🤝‍🧑🏾 He needs his people: Spouse ≠ only container—think therapist, mentors, men’s community, real accountability. 🛡️ Protect each other & the mission: Boundaries are holy; honesty and safety can coexist. How did you build capacity to be a safer place for your partner’s truth? Drop a tip for the wedding party. Episode 260 is live—tap in! 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! View it here: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykaj... The Website: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/ The Email list: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/j... Contact Us: [email protected] Leave Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629 Leave a Review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon:   / hmay   Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast:   / howmarriedareyou   Glen:   / beleafmel   Yvette:   / mrsmelanin   Chocolate Babes:   / chocolatebabies   Frank the Puppet:   / frankpuppet   Yvette Unplugged Podcast:   / yvette_unplugged   WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD:    / beleafinfatherhoodtv   Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!