Am I Waiting on a Proposal That's Never Coming? #HMAY Ep. 265

PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yoursel... What do you do when the man you love keeps hitting pause on the future you planned together? 💍 After six years—three long-distance, three living together—a listener’s boyfriend still hasn’t proposed or started premarital counseling. She feels more like a roommate than a partner, while he insists they’ve “gone backwards” and need to fix their foundation before moving toward marriage. Now she’s wondering: is this a season to rebuild… or a sign it’s time to walk away? We talk: 💬 “When a man says ‘not right now,’ he often means ‘not you.’” – Glen breaks down what “not ready” really signals about a man’s heart and leadership. ⚖️ How living together before commitment can blur standards and stall clarity about the relationship’s direction. ❤️ Why comfort can replace pursuit—and what women lose when they stop being chosen. 🧱 Yvette’s reminder: “You can’t fix the foundation while living in the house.” If it’s shaky now, marriage won’t steady it. 🙏🏾 The difference between hoping he’ll grow and accepting he’s not growing with you. Have you ever stayed too long waiting for someone to be ready? ⏳ Episode 265 of How Married Are You? is live—tap in, share your story, and tag a friend who needs this convo. 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! View it here: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykaj... The Website: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/ The Email list: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/j... Contact Us: [email protected] Leave Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629 Leave a Review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon:   / hmay   Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast:   / howmarriedareyou   Glen:   / beleafmel   Yvette:   / mrsmelanin   Chocolate Babes:   / chocolatebabies   Frank the Puppet:   / frankpuppet   Yvette Unplugged Podcast:   / yvette_unplugged   WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD:    / beleafinfatherhoodtv   Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week! 00:00 Intro 02:05 Chocolate Baby Story Time 08:40 How to Support Us 14:10 Email: “We’ve Been Together 6 Years…” 43:00 How Married Are You?