HT57 情感關係中為了他人改變自己，我還是我嗎？

Would you change yourself for your significant other? Trying to change yourself because you want to stay in a relationship. It seems that we have all experienced this kind of youthful love. We've all gone through this kind of young love, where we've gone out of our way for another person. But in the end, looking back, after a long time and a lot of experiences. I feel differently about myself and the love that I felt at the beginning. I feel differently about myself and the love that I felt at the beginning of my life. Perhaps, the situation follows the heart. "Is love a spiritual opium or an end-of-the-century pastime?" Suddenly, singing this song, inexplicably. There's something I want to shout out: When I was editing this episode, I asked H if he understood my confession in the middle of the episode. Although I used the third person, the main character was actually him, did he understand? He said, "Huh? Is that so? Okay, I'll do it! I've been playing the piano all night! The enthusiasm died down and I got a hot slap on his back. He won't understand my love or my anger unless I use my bone-crushing slap. 00:00 - CC Subtitles, remember to turn it on! 00:29 - Have you ever tried to change yourself in love? Do you have any regrets? 08:18 - Do we all crave the nourishment of love? 13:26 - Have you ever felt the fear of loss in your emotions? 17:42 - When we love in our own way, is the object needed? 22:37 - Would you be the same person if you changed yourself to stay in a relationship? 27:31 - It's true, but it's important to realize that it's deeper! 34:14 - Try to construct your own way of dealing with the world! 38:34 - Have you ever really understood yourself before building emotions? 42:11 - When we ask ourselves questions, are we always too eager to get answers? 46:55 - Maybe the adversities in your life are meant to transform you into a better version of yourself! ---------------------------------------- A place to lease your prejudice and explore the unknown. Doubt is the essence of life, walking with the unknown to explore the world, everyone is the book that this Council will walk. Drinking Library is a Taiwan cultural media Podcast program that started in 2020, hosted by Otherwise Library's Hank & Ting, and updated weekly. We talk about the love, hate, anger and madness of life while drinking wine, searching for the marks and anxieties of the times, and focusing on life's perplexities and doubts, our own lack of, and the interesting souls. The climax of life, and watch life's unique philosophy and emotional learning, personal values. If you like our program, welcome to subscribe! Feel free to leave a comment to cheer us up! Meet Interesting SoulsOtherwise Library https://walkingbook.tw/ Collaboration Invitation [email protected] #LifeQuest #TimeAnxiety #FunSoul #EmotionalLearning