Stop Trying to 'Fix' Your Avoidant Partner (Do This Instead)

👉 Broke up with an avoidant: Should you stay or should you go take my assessment to know the answer today https://alexisfriedlander.typeform.co... It feels like love, and it won't let go. One of you reaches, the other pulls back, and the pulling-back makes the reaching worse...and round it goes. From the inside it looks like incompatibility, or like one person is the problem. It's neither. The anxious-avoidant trap is a self-reinforcing loop: each person's coping strategy triggers the other's. That's why it's so sticky, and why white-knuckling distance almost never holds, you're fighting a mechanism, not a feeling. In this video: – Why you keep getting pulled back even when you know better – Why it isn't your fault or their fault — it's the dynamic – What's actually happening underneath the pursue/withdraw pattern – How to step out of the loop without just forcing silence and hoping 📅: Schedule your diagnostic call with me: https://calendly.com/alexisfr/diagnos...