Арестович LIVE #83. Ответы на вопросы зрителей. @arestovych

🎬 August 1st – Film Seminar "The Name of the Rose" https://apeiron.school/the-rose-name 🩸 August 8th – Seminar "Me and Trauma" https://apeiron.school/the-trauma-and-i 🦋 August 13th – Tais Krymova's Course "The Evolution of Feminine Archetypes" https://apeiron.school/evolution-of-f... 📖 July 25th – Analysis of the Strugatskys' Book "Predatory Things of the Century" https://apeiron.school/book-reading-c... 🕉️ August 19th – Seminar by Pavel Onoprienko "White Tantra: The Path of Bhakti Yoga" https://apeiron.school/white-tantra-p... 🎓 School of Thinking and Communication @ApeironSchool ➖➖➖➖➖ ► https://apeiron.school ► https://t.me/apeiron_school ►   / apeiron.school   ►   / apeiron.school   👕 Merch: https://shop.apeiron.school 👉 Timestamps, part 1/3: ➤ 00:00 Updated broadcast format. ➤ 00:58 As a child and teenager, the world felt very deep and vivid. There was a kind of slow-paced experience. And now, approaching adulthood, many other things have opened up, but life has become flat, surrogate, gray. My whole life has sped up dramatically. I feel like I'm living, but I'm not experiencing it. How can I get back to experiencing it? ➤ 04:30 What should you do if God doesn't answer your question? Silence is the answer. ➤ 05:08 How can I finally let my new self emerge? ➤ 07:17 How can I express myself as precisely as possible? How do I explain my point of view to others if I have a misunderstanding of terminology when communicating with some? ➤ 11:20 Tell me more about the course you'll be starting this fall. What are the advantages of taking this course compared to purchasing the modules individually? ➤ 14:35 What is the purpose of the ego? ➤ 15:52 If the interest of the inner explorer constantly outweighs fear, shame, and insecurity, is it possible to speak of harmony with oneself? ➤ 17:20 As a child, love was conditional—I had to prove everything. Largely because of this, I grew up with a ton of problems, especially when it comes to men. For example, dependence on the opinions of others. Now, listening to you, I've come to the conclusion that I'm valuable in and of myself, without any accomplishments. But you said that a boy, unlike a girl, isn't inherently valuable. He must seek meaning in the void, acquire value through proof, and fight what he doesn't like. Does this mean I can't succeed as a man if I no longer want to prove anything? ➤ 18:53 I can't express myself. I constantly feel like I'm being laughed at, rejected, etc. How can I live with this? I'm no longer asking how to get rid of it. ➤ 20:30 What if it's hard to admit not your mistakes, but your correct assumptions, and to yourself? Doubting is probably right, but sometimes you regret not having done things your way because of doubts. ➤ 23:05 The new module "Me and the Other" was a huge revelation about my basic background state. A longing for life, the inability to enjoy life, and such fundamental defenses as egoism, the desire to reaffirm my importance as a right to exist, and problems with claiming things in the material world. Throughout my childhood, I spent my life trying to save my alcoholic mother, enduring, keeping silent, hoping for a manifestation of love from my mother (it never happened), and now, as an adult, I still live in a filter: the world is dangerous, cruel, and we need to escape from it. How do I break out of this background state? What do I focus on, how do I thaw out? ➤ 23:50 How do you feel about aging? ➤ 25:05 My eldest daughter (30) spent half an hour explaining to me what a terrible mother I am. How should I respond to this? ➤ 26:39 What could the fear of death indicate? All the thoughts that paralyze me boil down to one thing: the fear of dying. What's the best way to deal with this? ➤ 27:35 Veronica's story from Ukraine is simply amazing. How can I teach myself to choose light and love when it's easier to choose hatred and aggression? ➤ 30:33 How can I explain such extreme fluctuations in my worldview? From worrying about a 20-liter can of gasoline to the feeling of "I don't exist." ➤ 31:09 How can I overcome the deep hurt of betrayal? Betrayals from those closest to me, either through a gross mistake or as a result of the subtle instigation of sworn enemies. ➤ 33:06 I'm troubled by the dilemma of interfering in other people's lives. On the one hand, a person's will is sacred, on the other, I have a strong desire to intervene, persuade, and advise. What should I do? ... ➤ Timecodes continue under the pinned comment 👇 🔴 Watch previous philosophical and psychological streams: https://bit.ly/3YwlWGX 🔖 SOCIAL MEDIA @arestovych ➖➖➖➖➖ ► https://t.me/O_Arestovich_official ►   / alexey.arestovich   ►   / alexey.arestovich   ►   / arestovych   ►   / alexey.arestovich   #arestovych #alexeyarestovich #apeiron #arestovych #apeiron #school #courses #psychology #arestovich #ukr...