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If your marriage feels stuck… this might be why. In this episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, we’re talking about one of the biggest relationship killers: blame shifting. This isn’t about tearing you down. It’s about helping you grow. It’s easy to point fingers.But real growth starts when you look in the mirror. A lot of people think, “It’s their fault.”But the truth is, you always have a part to play. And until you own it, nothing changes. We unpack what it really means to take responsibility in your marriage, your mindset, and your life. Because you can’t change them… but you can change you. We talk about how to:• Stop blame shifting and start growing• Break out of a victim mindset• Take responsibility in your relationships• Build stronger, healthier communication If you’ve ever thought:• Why won’t they change?• Why do I feel stuck in this relationship?• What does it actually mean to “own my part”? This conversation is for you. You can’t change them.But you can change you. NEXT STEPS💬 Comment your biggest takeaway📤 Share this with someone who needs it🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every Thursday RESOURCEShttps://www.kenandtabatha.com 📩 Ask us questions or share your testimony:[email protected] 🌐 Connect With Us: Websiteshttps://www.kenclaytor.comhttps://www... Instagram/ kenclaytor/ tabathaclaytor/ myalivechurch TikTok@Ken_Claytor@Tabathaclaytor Facebook/ pastorkenclaytor/ pastortabathaclaytor/ myalivechurch #marriage #christianmarriage #relationships #personalgrowth #accountability

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