The Pattern that is Damaging Your Relationship | + Chafing + Moms with Body Issues

EP 76 - Not for Chafing + Perfectionism is Making Your Relationship Harder *** It’s summer, ya kooks! Except…is it? Caroline and Jess debate when summer actually begins before launching into a WHATADO: how to dress for summer when you’re a curvy honey. Personal style is the conundrum that will never die. They cover wearing color, anti-chafing tips, and their mother’s thoughts on their changing bodies. Plus, Jess has a relationship realization worth a deep dive: how to handle the emotional onslaught you feel after getting critical feedback from a very steady, rational partner. The two decipher the difference between feeling disconnected and feeling out of sync, and follow up on some couple things shared by listeners. They round out the episode with some rapid-fire hot takes (shroom edition?) and complaints about kids on the internet. Because why not end with babies when you are two babies? IYKYK. *** Not for Everyone is a podcast hosted by one hater (Caroline Winkler) and one lover (Jess DeBakey), with new episodes every Thursday. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f9AtKs... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... And everywhere else: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Plus our merch store: ⁠https://not4everyonepod.myshopify.com/⁠ *** And FOLLOW US on Instagram for more: @not4everyonepod @thegoodsitter @jzdebakey *** This episode was produced by none other than our prince, @abinewhouse. *** Share with a friend! Subscribe and rate us on your favorite podcasting app! Review us on Apple Podcasts! *** Contents of this Video 00:00 - Intro 2:00 - WHATADO: how to dress for summer when ya curvy 8:00 - Wearing color and dressing for LA 19:00 - mom’s thoughts about bodies 26:50 - a relationship realization 40:00 - triggers in relationships and feeling disconnected from your partner 45:00 - superpowers: mind reading, flying, teleportation, and songwriting 49:13 - a follow-up on genius couple and couple non-sexual fantasies 52:00 - Caroline and Jess are fading 55:25 - rapid-fire hot takes 1:00:15 - kids on the internet *** 𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐌𝐄𝐑 All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or mental health professionals, or really professional of any kind. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe! Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA #podcast #selfhelp #comedypodcast #bestfriends