Почему приемных детей возвращают в детдома

"The worst thing that happens when a child is returned is that they confirm their theory that you can't trust anyone. They've experienced great betrayal, yet they still think, 'Maybe adults are okay after all?' But the return convinces them otherwise: 'I tried, I went, but there's no such thing as a fairy tale.'" Over the past five years, the rate of return to orphanages has nearly doubled. To understand the reasons, Important Stories spoke with children who have experienced being returned to an orphanage, their parents, and psychologists. What it's like to return to an orphanage and why the state is to blame—watch our report. 🔹 Read the research on our website: https://istories.media/reportages/202... 🔹 Organizations you can turn to for help if you're a foster parent and are facing difficulties: "Arithmetic of Good" https://www.a-dobra.ru/ "Change One Life" https://changeonelife.ru/ "Find a Family" https://sirota.ru/ "Volunteers Helping Orphans" https://otkazniki.ru/ Script: Sonya Savina, Polina Uzhvak Filming, Editing: Gleb Limansky Timecodes: 00:00 Introduction 01:22 The story of Polina, who survived two Return 06:20 Inna Pasechnik explains how returning to an orphanage affects a child 07:07 The story of Elena Machinskaya's two adopted daughters. Both girls experienced being returned to orphanages 08:50 Who and why returns children to orphanages. How the "Dima Yakovlev Law" influenced this 09:39 How government social advertising influenced the increase in child returns 10:15 Why children, even in good foster families, hope to be taken in by their parents 12:42 How children's illnesses affect returns. The story of Irina and her adopted son, Efim 16:05 Is it possible to avoid returning children to orphanages? Yes! 16:40 Advice for adoptive parents from adoptive parents. Where to turn if you feel you're overwhelmed.

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