I Might Lose a Friend to Gain a Husband #HMAY Ep. 257

Is God’s will bigger than girl code? ✝️ When a listener in her church circle and her friend’s ex catch real feelings, the trio dynamic—and a friendship—hangs in the balance. She’s prayed the feelings away, he confessed he wants to pursue her, and everyone’s watching to see whether wisdom or worry wins. 💔 We talk: “They didn’t guard their hearts.” Staying close after a breakup kept hope alive and blurred boundaries. “Church culture can blur the lines.” You can’t call dibs on people, and friendship circles can make feelings messy. “You want to be with somebody who wants to be with you.” Maturity releases what isn’t yours and resists possessiveness. “Let the Lord’s voice be the loudest in your ear.” Not girl code or guy code—God’s guidance first. “You’re free to pursue if it’s mutual.” Ask, “What’s your plan and how will this be different,” and accept that you might “lose a friend for your future husband.” Have you ever dated within the friend group? How did you balance loyalty and love? Episode 257 is live—tap in and tell us where you draw the line. 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! View it here: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykaj... The Website: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/ The Email list: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/j... Contact Us: [email protected] Leave Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629 Leave a Review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon:   / hmay   Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast:   / howmarriedareyou   Glen:   / beleafmel   Yvette:   / mrsmelanin   Chocolate Babes:   / chocolatebabies   Frank the Puppet:   / frankpuppet   Yvette Unplugged Podcast:   / yvette_unplugged   WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD:    / beleafinfatherhoodtv   Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!