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We’ve been friends for thirty years, but when I come back from meeting them, fatigue comes before joy. It’s not that I dislike them. It’s not that I hate them, either. But at some point, I just stopped feeling comfortable when we’re together. In this video, we discuss why old friends become uncomfortable and what psychological structures lie hidden within that feeling. ✔ Why didn't I realize this before marriage? ✔ Dunbar's '7 Pillars of Friendship' and the Structure of Value Conflict ✔ The Impact of Uncomfortable Friendships on Health (Michigan State University 6-Year Tracking Study) ✔ Professor Carstensen's Socioemotional Selectivity Theory ✔ Where and How to Find the Right Friends at This Age References and Sources: Kalmijn (2003), Dyadic Withdrawal Hypothesis, Social Networks Carstensen (1992; 2021), Socioemotional Selectivity Theory, Psychology and Aging Robin Dunbar (2018), The Anatomy of Friendship, Trends in Cognitive Sciences Chopik (2017), Friendship Strain and Health, Personal Relationships Lang & Carstensen (1994), Berlin Aging Study Jonathan Haidt (2012), The Righteous Mind American Perspectives Survey (2021), Survey Center on American Life If this video resonated with you Please like and subscribe. If you have had similar experiences, please share them in the comments. #Friendships #AsYouGetOlder #ReorganizingRelationships #OldFriends #ValueDifferences #MiddleAgedPsychology #SeniorRelationships #FriendshipDiscomfort #RelationshipPsychology #TrueFriends #WhyFriendsBecomeUncomfortableAsYouGetOlder #WhenAnOldFriendSuddenlyBecomesUncomfortable #ThePsychologyOfDriftingAwayFromCloseFriends #WhyFriendshipsChangeAfterMarriage #WhatToDoWithFriendsWithDifferentValues ​​#HowToMakeNewFriendsAfterMiddleAge #WhyItIsNormalToHaveFewerFriendsAsYouAge #HowToSortOutUncomfortableRelationships #RealisticWaysForSeniorsToMakeNewFriends #PsychologicalReasonsWhyOldFriendshipsChange