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#RelationshipPsychology #AttachmentType #Avoidant Feeling like you lose if you reach out first, strangely pushing someone away the more you like them, giving everything only to be left with scars… Did this sound like your story? It’s not your personality; it’s because the way you were loved as a child is secretly manipulating your current relationships. In this video, I’ve translated, one by one, three patterns that people who grew up unloved repeat in their dating lives. The mindset of weighing your options and being unable to approach first, the mindset of running away and ghosting the more you like someone, and the mindset of resenting someone after accommodating them completely, or breaking down belatedly after a breakup. We explored how avoidant and anxious attachment styles manifest in relationships and why it isn't your fault. And it would feel unfair to just know the cause and stop there, wouldn't it? So, starting today, I’ve also summarized three ways to relearn love on your own. If you’ve been blaming yourself because your current relationship keeps going awry, I hope this video brings you some comfort.