Роды, аборт, кесарево, депрессия: честный разговор с гинекологом

Podcast 69 – honestly about sex and relationships. In this episode, I talk with obstetrician-gynecologist Elena Ordiyants, MD, PhD, about pregnancy planning, childbirth, male factor infertility, sex during pregnancy, and much more. Why is it important for couples to prepare for pregnancy before conception? Is it possible to plan the sex of a child? Is sex during pregnancy dangerous? Why is a cesarean section also childbirth? What are the risks for women choosing a home birth? Why should a man have a partner birth? What happens to a woman after the birth of a child? And why does family planning become a completely different issue after age 35? This episode is not a substitute for a consultation with a doctor. If you are planning a pregnancy, have experienced infertility, pregnancy loss, complications, anxiety, or have questions about childbirth, be sure to consult a specialist. Timestamps: 00:00 — Highlights of the episode 00:41 — Guest: Elena Ordiyants, obstetrician-gynecologist 01:51 — What parents-to-be fear 03:19 — What is pre-pregnancy preparation 04:19 — What tests are needed before pregnancy 05:13 — Vaccinations, anemia, deficiencies, and excess weight 06:34 — What a man should do when planning a child 07:03 — Why infertility isn't just a female issue 08:35 — Sex during ovulation and trying to conceive 09:12 — How long is it normal to try to conceive 10:47 — Sex "for conception" and sex "for pleasure" 12:27 — Why some women get pregnant very easily 13:36 — Infertility: where to start testing 14:16 — Why it's worth checking the man first 15:10 — Ovulation, tubes, uterus, and causes of infertility 15:54 — Why there's no time to waste after 35 17:25 — Is it possible to plan the sex of a child? 18:32 — IVF, gender selection, and ethical issues 20:35 — How to correctly calculate the gestational age 23:18 — How pregnancy care works 23:48 — When to register for pregnancy 25:09 — Can a woman not know she's pregnant? 28:16 — Sex during pregnancy 29:32 — Why do a couple's desires change at different stages of pregnancy? 30:28 — Can sex help before childbirth? 31:03 — Is it possible to get pregnant after a tubal ligation? 35:34 — What diseases can be transmitted to a child? 35:54 — Genetic tests and risks to the fetus 37:36 — Why "healthy parents" can also have problems? 39:47 — HIV and pregnancy 41:09 — Why in There are no 100% guarantees of pregnancy 42:05 — Natural birth or cesarean section 42:24 — Why a cesarean section is also childbirth 43:25 — Why does a child have to go through the stress of childbirth 46:44 — Episiotomy: when is it done 47:39 — What to do if your water breaks 50:11 — Home birth: why it's a risk 51:22 — Water birth, jacuzzi, and the "red button" in the maternity hospital 53:12 — Why women choose home births 55:03 — Uterine bleeding and the real dangers of childbirth 55:53 — Partner births through the eyes of a man 56:34 — Why men used to faint during childbirth 58:04 — How partner births affect relationships 59:31 — How medicine reduces risks for mother and child 1:01:02 — Pregnancy loss and perinatal Psychologist 1:03:30 — Postpartum Depression and Baby Blues 1:05:38 — Maternal Instinct: Does It Appear on Its Own? 1:06:52 — Abortion, Laws, and a Woman's Right to Decide 1:08:16 — How Abortion Can Affect the Body 1:10:18 — Surrogacy and Donor Eggs 1:12:00 — How Much Does Egg Freezing Cost? 1:12:33 — When Are Women Discharged After Childbirth in Russia and Abroad? 1:15:28 — Parents' Age and Genetic Risks 1:16:19 — "Old-Parenting": An Outdated Term or a Real Risk 1:17:22 — Why Men Over 45 Should Think About Sperm 1:18:51 — Until What Age Can a Woman Get Pregnant? 1:21:10 — How Elena Became Obstetrician-gynecologist 1:23:29 — Why doctors rarely give unsolicited advice 1:25:30 — Can you get pregnant from pool water? 1:25:56 — Is it normal to have a male gynecologist? 1:28:01 — Can you lose your virginity from a tampon? 1:29:27 — Can you take a pregnancy test online? 1:29:59 — Only women experience menopause? 1:31:02 — Why go to the gynecologist if nothing hurts 1:32:55 — How long does it take to study to become an OB/GYN 1:34:24 — How much does an OB/GYN earn? 1:36:01 — What annoys doctors about patients 1:36:43 — The main advice on family planning 1:38:21 — Why you need to prepare for two lines Podcast 69: ◼️ Denis Balabas's Telegram channel - https://t.me/balabas_69 ◼️ Instagram* -   / denisbalabas   ◼️ VKontakte - https://vk.com/podcast69 ◼️ Podcast on other resources - https://podcast69.mave.digital ◼️ Collaboration - [email protected] ◼️ Channel support - https://boosty.to/podcast69 Filming: "Listen Here!" studio - https://poslushaysuda.ru/ *Meta is the parent company of Facebook, WhatsApp, and Instagram. It has been designated as extremist and banned in the Russian Federation. #podcast69 #pregnancy #birth #gynecologist #ElenaOrdiyants #DenisBalabas #pregnancyplanning #sexduringpregnancy #cesarean #partnerbirth #women'shealth #infertility #relation...