Реальное материнство: Ярослава Тринадцатко о декрете, муже и работе

Promo code STANDUP gives you an 8% discount on your first order at Periodica: https://periodica.press/products/?cat... Motherhood is often portrayed as absolute happiness. But what really happens when a woman gives birth, continues to work, stays awake at night, and tries to maintain her marriage, body, career, and herself? In this episode of the "Close People" podcast, Varya Vedeneyeva speaks with Yaroslava Trinadtsatko, a comedian and mother of a one-year-old son. We discuss: — Why maternity leave isn't a vacation — ​​What it's like to be a working mother — What changes in marriage after the birth of a child — How to live if a mother earns more — Why nannies are needed and why asking for help isn't shameful — Why women so often judge other women — How the body changes after childbirth — Why motherhood can be both difficult and happy Subscribe to the podcast channel to learn about new episodes and follow our guests on social media: Podcast Telegram: https://t.me/periodicapodcast Varya's Telegram channel: https://t.me/varya_daily Varya's Instagram:   / varyavedeneeva   Yaroslava's Instagram:   / yaska13   Yaroslava's YouTube channel: @trinadtsatko Yaroslava's Telegram: https://t.me/s/trinadtsatko The podcast "Close People" is about the modern family: relationships, raising children, traditions, and overcoming crises. We explore intimacy and try to understand how to preserve it for years to come. 💙 We, the Periodica team, are creating a photobook printing service for family and personal archives, to preserve memories of important moments in life. 💙 Host: Varya Vedeneyeva, founder of the photobook printing service Periodica, the 365done.ru project with free checklists and trackers, and the author of diaries for developing mindfulness skills. For questions and suggestions, please email [email protected] *Instagram is owned by Meta, whose activities are recognized as extremist and banned in Russia. TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 — Motherhood Unfiltered 0:51 — What's the Episode About 1:07 — Yaroslava Trinadtsatko: Comedian and Mother 2:10 — Why a Happy Life with a Child Is So Complicated 2:28 — "I Hate Everything": Lack of Sleep and Burnout 4:22 — A Working Mom and the Role of the Breadwinner 5:47 — Burnt Toast Syndrome 6:23 — What Yaroslava Relies on 7:25 — Nanny, Husband, and Dividing the Days 9:01 — Society Demands Enjoying Motherhood 10:43 — How Other Women Cope 11:00 — Why Maternity Leave Is Not a Vacation 12:16 — If Men Tried Maternity Leave 13:25 — A Mother's Invisible Tasks 14:49 — What Helps You Get Back on Track 15:13 — The Guilt of a Working Woman Moms 17:12 — A Female Comedian and Motherhood 18:29 — Why It's Difficult for a Woman to Find a Partner 20:08 — Misogyny from Women 21:13 — How to Negotiate New Roles in the Family 22:49 — Misunderstanding: Mom Earns, Dad Is on Maternity Leave 23:32 — What Advice to Future Parents 24:58 — No Shame in Supporting a Family 26:27 — A Night Nanny and Outside Help 28:33 — The Loneliness of a Working Mom 31:27 — How to Maintain Intimacy with Your Husband 32:49 — The Postpartum Body 35:32 — Why Women Criticize Other Women 40:00 — How Motherhood Changed Humor 41:28 — Why It's Important to Talk About Difficult Issues 42:24 — Dad on Maternity Leave and a New Family Model 43:17 — I Want Someone to Hold Me 44:01 — What Topics Yaroslava isn't joking 44:56 — Why do we need a family today? 46:01 — What is a healthy marriage? 46:54 — Why do we need children? 49:11 — Why she's not planning a second child 50:31 — Women's ambitions and the task trap 53:26 — When did she decide to have a child? 56:39 — A realistic conversation about motherhood 57:24 — The finale