Три состояния любви: открытие, проникновение, труд. Немного о важном-5. Владимир Никитин

In the fifth episode of the special project "A Little About the Important," Vladimir Nikitin responds to a direct request from viewers and discusses love and infatuation. The topic is heightened by the context of war: by killing, war simultaneously kills love, giving rise to hatred—but it also gives birth to great manifestations of compassion between brothers-in-arms. Infatuation and love, according to Nikitin, occupy an increasingly diminishing place in the modern world, and the reason is that we fear the irrational and the immeasurable, reducing everything to utility and self-interest. The central structure of the episode is three states of love, which Nikitin formulates based on personal experience, not theory. Love as discovery—falling in love with the beauty and mystery of the world, emphasizing the joy and ease of being, an experience that is important to preserve from the first childhood admiration of a garden beyond a fence to old age. Penetrating love is passion, an attachment to a single person, an attempt to understand her body, her unique qualities through beauty, a path that can be deadly when the passion is unrequited. And laborious love is the highest stage, a shared union that results in children, a home, a garden, and trust; a state two people enter after passion has passed, sustained not by attraction but by what Nikitin calls sweetness—a shared moment born of constant conversation about what matters. Nikitin illustrates his theses with a parable about a student who spent ten years learning to see the essence behind things, and then another year learning to see the thing itself anew; the myth of Orpheus and Eurydice as a warning against impatience of the heart; and the story of Blok's cult of Lyuba Mendeleyeva as an example of the substitution of a poetic image for a living woman. A separate and unexpectedly poignant theme is demographic: citing Kapitsa and Gumilev, Nikitin connects the fading of love, passion, and mutual interest with the limits of human growth and the fact that wars historically mow down the most passionate. A jar of dyaki for Vladimir Afrikanovich Nikitin Monobank details: 1) Bank https://send.monobank.ua/jar/9Gc6vgHbY4 2) Card 4874 1000 3950 0171 3) Iban UA243220010000026208380736794 IPN / EDRPOU: 1694912359 From: Nikitin Volodymyr Afrikanovich 4) PayPal: @VolodymyrNikitin63 Merch can be purchased here: https://medoyid.com Monobank bank for the studio https://send.monobank.ua/jar/5C86fTjsiU Become a sponsor Channel:    / @yuriyromanenko_ukraine   You can support the channel: To my Patreon   / romanenkoyuriy   to my PrivatBank card 4731 1856 1467 7968 to my Monobank card 5375 4114 2205 9084 PayPal [email protected] Follow my channels on social media: My Telegram channel https://t.me/romanenko_dns My Viber channel https://invite.viber.com/?g2=AQA8fdi5... My Facebook page:   / yuriy.romanenko1977   My business Facebook page:   / yuriy.romanenko   My Instagram page:   / ​​   My Twitter page:   / shan_yan   My TikTok page:   / yuriyrom77   "Khvylya" Facebook page:   / hvylya   TIMECODES 00:00:54 — Start of episode, announcement of future topics 00:02:55 — Topic of the Day: Love and Falling in Love by Viewer Request 00:03:19 — War, Love, and Hate: The Paradox of Wartime 00:04:42 — Bernard of Clairvaux: The Measure of Love is Immeasurability 00:05:30 — Stendhal and His Treatise on Love 00:08:29 — Aristotle, Plato, Newton: The World Relies on Sympathy 00:10:04 — The Crisis of Loneliness: Japan, Great Britain, the Disappearance of a Couple 00:11:04 — To Love or to Be Loved: Nikitin's Personal Position 00:12:11 — The Parable of the Disciple: The Essence of a Thing and the Thing Itself 00:25:21 — Three States of Love: The Formula for Release 00:27:36 — Love as Discovery: Falling in Love with the Mystery of the World 00:30:50 — The Idea of ​​Sport in Love and Dahl's Dictionary of Jealousy 00:32:53 — Penetrating Love: Passion and Uniqueness 00:35:09 — The Lion in Winter: Passion and the Game Between Equals 00:35:27 — Blok and the Cult of Lyuba Mendeleeva 00:37:29 — The Myth of Orpheus and Eurydice: Impatience of the Heart 00:43:59 — Labor-Love: Concordance and Common Time 00:46:00 — Rosenstock-Huessy: Education as a Sacrifice to the Past and Future 00:47:28 — Mamardashvili: Love as a Conversation with the Essence 00:50:22 — Final Poems and Announcement of the Next Topic — The Image of God #philosophy #love #manandwoman