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"I'm always being swayed by other people's opinions..." I will answer such worries of HSPs. This time, I talked to HSPs about the points to not take other people's opinions seriously. I am a qualified mental psychology counselor and behavioral psychologist, and I am an advisor specializing in HSPs. I receive about 100 comments and consultations every day. I have answered the concerns of more than 2,000 people so far. ▼Click here for my second book▼ "I've decided to stop being swayed" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy [Click here to subscribe to the channel] / @cocoyowa In the first place, it's okay to have different opinions from other people. For work rules, etc. There will be an answer for things with a clear direction. However, your life choices... It's natural that your love compatibility will differ even if other people give you their opinions. I talked about it in detail. *Additional useful videos ●"Countermeasures" For those who are afraid of other people's opinions / 7 ways to stop worrying about others • 『対策』他人の評価が怖いあなたへ/人が気にならなくなる7つの方法 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Consultation, information on how to live as an HSP, and consultation desk ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Friend-making and consultation service for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 1000 people are participating. A weekly HSP/HSS-type HSP/HSE information newsletter with 20,000 to 50,000 characters. Various contents are available, such as limited live performances, limited radio, limited videos, and consultation forms. Please also use it if you want to consult Ryota about your worries. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations that are not related to HSPs...work or family relationships are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. Click here for details and registration↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... ※ Won 1st place in the 2020 MagMag Grand Prize Newcomer Award. ※ Won 1st place in the 2021 MagMag Grand Prize by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A community for sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●Cocoiro Salon https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆You can learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. It can be used safely and securely as a closed SNS. Various events and regular live performances are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Books for HSPs ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon "I've decided to stop being manipulated"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▼Amazon "A book that helps you live for yourself even if you are too concerned about others"▼ https://amzn.to/3nuooKl ▼Table of contents▼ 0:00 Today's theme 0:26 Points to not take opinions seriously① Don't treat them as the same person 3:45 Points to not take opinions seriously② I think it's okay for opinions to differ 6:15 Point 3 for not taking opinions seriously: Don't make a decision based on one evaluation 9:04 Point 4 for not taking opinions seriously: I think that you think this way 11:27 Point 5 for not taking opinions seriously: You can't meet all expectations 14:44 Point 6 for not taking opinions seriously: Create your own value 18:35 Point 7 for not taking opinions seriously: See what the other person can't do ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●6 ways to live your life without being jealous of others/How to live without worrying about comparing yourself to others ht tps:// • 『自分らしく』ひがまない日々の作り方6選/他人と比べてクヨクヨしない生き方 ●[Psychology] 6 things to watch out for when you're too conscious of others/Important stories about your own axis • 【心理】他人を意識しすぎる注意点6つ/自分軸に関わる大事な話 ●[Important now] 6 ways for HSPs to protect themselves from others/Efforts to avoid hurting their feelings • 【今、大事】HSPさんが他人から自分の身を守る方法6つ/心を傷つけない取り組み ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa .com/ ● Summary of diagnostic tests for HSPs: 3 types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Recommended job change services for HSPs: accompaniment to some interviews, same-day handling of resignations, etc. https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/change-of-jo... ● [Archival version] Summary of HSP job selection strategies / Explained along with 10 suitable occupations https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/shigoto-erabi/ ● "Chronic fatigue" The trouble of constantly thinking about work. Introducing the causes and solutions https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/all-about-work/ ● I'm afraid of being disliked by others... Introducing ways to improve your fear of people based on psychology and characteristics https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/scared-to-be... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, a relaxed lifestyle) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Pinterest https://www.pinterest.jp/ryo_shigoto/ ※Music material site "SuzukazeNot...

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