『心理』苦手な人に執着する悩みを解決する方法／必要のない人と考えよう

"I'm obsessed with people I don't get along with... it's a problem." I'll answer that problem. This time, I talked about how to get rid of obsession. I am a qualified mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, and I am an advisor specializing in HSP. I receive about 100 comments and consultations every day. ▼Click here for my second book▼ "I've decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy You all have people you don't get along with or dislike, right? Even though you don't get along with them, do you think about them all the time? This is the same as unrequited love. [Subscribe to the channel here]    / @cocoyowa   It's important not to direct your energy towards trying to do something about that person. Thinking about people you don't get along with also strengthens your memory. Instead, if you direct your energy towards yourself and your loved ones, you will be able to let go of your attachments. I have talked about this in detail. ▼Be aware of horizontal connections in human relationships. ●The importance of "horizontal connections" in human relationships/HSPs should let go of vertical relationships    • 人間関係で重要な『横のつながり』の話／HSPは縦の関係から離れよう   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Consultation/Information on how to live as an HSP, consultation desk ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Friend-making and consultation service for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 1,000 people are participating. A weekly email newsletter with information on HSPs, HSS-type HSPs, and HSEs of 20,000 to 50,000 characters. Various contents are available, such as limited live shows, limited radio shows, limited videos, and consultation forms. You can also use the job support service for HSPs, "Cocojob." You can also use it if you want to consult Ryota about your problems. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSP...work-related or family-related matters are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. Click here for details and registration↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *1st place in the 2020 MagMag Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *1st place in the 2021 MagMag Grand Prize by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Community for sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●Cocoiro Salon https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆You can learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. It can be used safely and securely as a closed SNS. You can also use "Cocojob", a job support service for HSPs. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Books for HSPs ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon "I've decided to stop being manipulated"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▼Amazon "A book that helps you live for yourself even if you are too concerned about others"▼ https://amzn.to/3nuooKl ▼Table of contents▼ 0:00 Opening 0:18 Troubles of being obsessed with people you don't like① Unrequited love for people you don't like 2:03 Troubles of being obsessed with people you don't like② Don't direct your energy towards people you don't like 4:29 Troubles of being obsessed with people you don't like③ Think about important people, important people 6:35 Troubles of being obsessed with people you don't like The trouble with attachment ④ Get used to letting go 9:42 The trouble with attachment to people you don't like ⑤ Try moving away from your ideal 12:39 The trouble with attachment to people you don't like ⑥ People you don't need in your life ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● "HSP's Relationships" 6 ways of thinking to reduce mental fatigue / Explained from behavioral psychology    • 『HSPの人間関係』気疲れを減らす6つの考え方／行動心理からも解説   ● 7 items to check for relationships / Judge the people around you    • 人間関係のチェック7項目／あなたの周りの人を判断しよう   ● A story about the results of reducing relationships that all HSPs should know https://youtu. be/JgU2ojbcD2Q ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog to help HSP and sensitive people live better https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of each diagnostic test for HSP: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Recommended job change service for HSP: "Partial interview accompaniment, same-day handling of resignation, etc." https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/change-of-jo... ●"Cocojob": A job support service for sensitive people https://cocoyowa.c om/kokuchi/coco_job/ ●I wrote "The 2nd HSP Book" I've decided to stop being manipulated! https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/hsp_book2/ ●[Easy] How to deal with nasty people / Why do they say bad things about people... Explaining the reasons https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/sarcasm/ ●[Analysis] People who are compatible with HSP / 7 characteristics of people you want to have a deep relationship with https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/compatibilit... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04....