Психолог МЧС о том, как пережить смерть

We're afraid and reluctant to talk about death. But when loved ones die, we become completely helpless and lost, like children searching for real adults. No one talks to us about death very often. It's been that way since childhood. We decided to fill in the blanks and spoke with psychologist Larisa Pyzhyanova. For ten years, she headed the Russian Ministry of Emergency Situations' hotline. Larisa is now a psychologist at a children's hospice. It seems she knows everything about death. And she can talk about it without fear. 00:00 My work has been connected with death for 15 years. 03:34 How Larisa came to this job. 06:51 How does the Ministry of Emergency Situations hotline work. 08:19 How to comfort someone who has lost a loved one? 09:08 What is the wrong way to comfort someone? 11:22 What emergency situations have you worked on? 12:54 What helps a crisis psychologist stay sane? 14:51 Barracks Collapse in Omsk 16:40 I've never heard words of love like the ones I heard in the morgue at any wedding 19:53 How do men cry? 21:16 The Last Straw: How Larisa Left the Ministry of Emergency Situations 23:13 A Story About Morgue Workers 25:38 Why Is the Topic of Death Taboo in Russia? 27:38 Larisa Came to Work at a Children's Hospice 29:32 What's It Like to Tell a Child They're Going to Die 32:58 About Tema, Who Smoked Behind the Garages 35:47 How to Cope with Loss? 39:21 How to Talk About Death with Children? 41:30 Should You Take Your Child to a Funeral? 44:31 Should You Talk About Death with the Elderly? 47:25 I couldn't talk to my mother about her funeral 49:14 I will live as if my husband is on a business trip 52:11 Why Larisa has no fear of death 54:19 A ritual that helps her cope with loss Follow us on social media: IG:   / kollektiv_doc   VK: http://vk.com/kollektiv_doc TG: https://t.me/kollektiv_doc