A Rant About “Prophetic Kingdom Spouse” Ministries. (1 Corinthians 14:33)

Welcome back to Adara’s Altar! I’m honestly just sad. To be clear, I haven’t been married and I am single but I am not “available” right now because I do not have peace with God about entering into courtship with anyone else, though I have been offered, while I do not have clarity about my own family’s testimony. I was recently given a diagnosis of PTSD by a therapist on account of what I shared in this video. I ended the series The Esther Diaries and Raising Up God’s Kings in 2025, which were essentially “prophetic Kingdom spouse” ministries, because I didn’t have peace and the people mentoring me in ministry did not have peace I was walking in discernment. Single or married, sexual purity is #1 - so if you begin there, with the boundary “I’m not going to be sexually intimate with anyone outside wedlock because my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and thus any exposure of that temple is sacred based on Ezekiel 16:8 and 1 Corinthians 6:18-20,” and also keep your heart pure through staying free of other forms of sexual sin like watching pornography, masturbation, and reading erotica, I believe that is a biblical guarantee you’ll be fine no matter who your spouse is or if it’s God’s perfect will for you to be married or not. When I said I know God told my Grandma Carmen who her husband was by a dream in this video, I only said this because it is biblical that God speaks to people by dreams (I wouldn’t be alive right now, literally, had God not given her a marriage promise, because she and her husband helped raise me when I was small). Numbers 12:6, Job 33:14-18, Matthew 1:18-25. In fact, in Matthew 1:18-25, God actually did confirm to Joseph by a dream that Mary was his wife when she was only his betrothed. If it weren’t in the Bible, I wouldn’t be saying it was God. However, my faith is in the fruit. My grandma was (and is, in her widowhood to this day) a virtuous woman. She refused to have sex with any man that was not her lawfully wedded husband, which is why she inquired of the Lord as to who her husband was to make sure she made the right decision. The evidence it was God was not because of the dream, but because her prophecy unfolded through her obedience, chastity, and sexual purity - and it was a marriage that lasted to when my grandma became a widow, after which she told me she would not remarry because she only loved Ruben (my late grandpa). Her testimony if you are new here:    • How God Brought My Grandparents’ Marriage ...   To sow into the ministry Adara’s Altar: Cashapp: $darimarcela https://cash.app/$darimarcela To give to the 501(c)(3) nonprofit my mother Ruth works for, Good Gives Good, an organization founded by Tia Benbow to catalyze positive change by connecting resources with local solutions, ensuring that every act of kindness sparks a ripple effect of progress: Cashapp: $GoodGivesGoodNN https://cash.app/$GoodGivesGoodNN Website: https://www.goodgivesgood.org Look for rainbows in the clouds, the biblical sign of God’s promise 🌈 (Genesis 9:12-17)