I grew up between two worlds Now I'm £18,000 in debt

I'm £18,000 in debt. And for a long time, I told myself the same story everyone tells... bad habits, poor impulse control, no discipline. But after reading The Psychology of Money by @Morgan-Housel something clicked that I can't stop thinking about. This video isn't really about debt. It's about identity. About growing up between two worlds a council house in London and upper-middle-class Spain and what happens when your internal baseline doesn't match your bank account. I talk about: → Why some debt is an identity problem, not a spending problem → The psychology of "future self projection" and aspirational spending → Growing up working class in London but culturally shaped by old Spanish money → The £6,000 course mistake I'm still processing → Why financial shame rarely helps and what actually does This is one of the most personal, honest videos I've made. I hope it resonates. 📖 Book mentioned: The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel If this spoke to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. If you love to read, you may love my weekly ramblings: https://substack.com/@rhapsodygonzalez You can also follow my jouney on most platforms: Instagram →   / rhapsody.gonzalez   TikTok →   / rhapsody.gonzalez   X → https://x.com/RhapsodyGonzale Facebook →   / rhapsodygonzalez   LinkedIn →   / rhapsody-gonzalez-374b57197   Work with me [email protected] https://www.motherssocials.com/ I am not represented by an agency but if you would like to chat please email me xx Buy my wardrobe → https://www.vinted.co.uk/member/10305... 🎵 Copyrighted music licensed from Lickd. https://lickd.co End Titles (from "Beetlejuice Beetlejuice") by Danny Elfman, https://t.lickd.co/l/XK4oBQ126ox 🎵 Copyrighted music licensed from Lickd. https://lickd.co Fairytale by Harry Gregson-Williams, John Powell, https://t.lickd.co/l/JONMABJPNbQ 🎵 Copyrighted music licensed from Lickd. https://lickd.co Many Meetings by Howard Shore, https://t.lickd.co/l/krPpXGMGPbE 🎵 Copyrighted music licensed from Lickd. https://lickd.co Never Happened Before by Dickon Hinchliffe, https://t.lickd.co/l/KdeK7XJMeZ6 🎵 Copyrighted music licensed from Lickd. https://lickd.co SAD! (Instrumental) by XXXTENTACION, https://t.lickd.co/l/0kAE5V38AW2 #debtfreejourney #psychologyofmoney #personalfinance #financialliteracy #moneypsychology #identityandmoney #debtpayoff #financialmindset #selfimprovement #classandmoney #consciousspending #financialhealing #aspiration #moneymindset #budgeting #morganhousel