🔴 RELAZIONI: chi sono gli "evitanti"?

The term "avoidant", referring to a person's emotional predisposition, is becoming increasingly present even in the vocabulary of those who do not know its meaning in depth. Lately, I've heard it pronounced in a derogatory way when referring to certain people, as if to say that anyone who stays away from a serious relationship or an authentic bond is a person who deliberately chooses not to offer themselves, to be inaccessible, for the sake of intimate pleasure. to make potential partners suffer. Unfortunately, however, the reality is deeper, since the avoidant is only protecting themselves due to suffering experienced in the first phase of life. The fact remains that coming across a person with an avoidant functioning, when we are in love with them, is no walk in the park and it would be better to have cognitive tools to understand it before suffering too much. In this episode I would like to try to clarify the term "avoidant", and offer you a slightly more in-depth profile of this attachment style. Good vision!