🔷 Quello che fai per evitare l’abbandono

There's a hidden engine behind many of the behaviors that ruin our relationships. It's not tiredness, it's not character, it's not that "we're made that way." It's the fear of being abandoned. It runs silently, in the background, and transforms automatic yeses into habit, silences into punishment, labels into poorly translated screams of terror. In this episode, I begin with an ordinary Sunday evening—a drawer slammed too tightly, a bed that feels like miles—to get to the mechanism that almost no one mentions, but that almost everyone knows. With Riccardo's story, and with the contribution of John Bowlby's attachment theory, I try to show you how to recognize this pattern when it's in place—and how to stop letting an old wound make decisions for you. Enjoy! _____________________________ MY ESSAYS: 1) https://amzn.to/36feExf 2) https://www.amazon.it/dp/8864720383 3) https://www.amazon.it/dp/8864720413 MY ONLINE COURSE ON BODY LANGUAGE: https://www.omaxi.net/corsi/comunicaz... RELATIONAL ACADEMY: https://www.omaxi.net/corsi/academy.html MY FACEBOOK PAGE:   / omassi.sergio   INSTAGRAM:   / sergio.omassi   _________________________ #oltreleparole #SergioOmassi #FearOfAbandonment #Relationships #EffectiveCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #Coaching #LifeCoaching #Attachment #Bowlby #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalAwareness #CoupleRelationships #RelationalPsychology #podcastshow

đź”· When silence is a trap
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đź”· When silence is a trap

đź”· Win or be happy?
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đź”· Win or be happy?

If Your Twin Flame Is About to Return, These 4 Signs Will Blow Your Mind | Carl Jung
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If Your Twin Flame Is About to Return, These 4 Signs Will Blow Your Mind | Carl Jung

đź”· Mastering Instinct: The ORGI Cycle
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đź”· Mastering Instinct: The ORGI Cycle

Why Powerful People Suddenly Disappear! | Robert Greene
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Why Powerful People Suddenly Disappear! | Robert Greene

They Are Destroying Themselves Trying to Forget You... And The More They Try, The More You Occupy...
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They Are Destroying Themselves Trying to Forget You... And The More They Try, The More You Occupy...

Come L'Amore || Massimo Recalcati
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Come L'Amore || Massimo Recalcati

đź”· The Courage to Receive
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đź”· The Courage to Receive

non cercare lascia che siano loro a trovarti  Paolo Crepet
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non cercare lascia che siano loro a trovarti Paolo Crepet

đź”· How to get yourself heard without attacking
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đź”· How to get yourself heard without attacking

DO THEY MAKE YOU FEEL SMALL? RECOGNIZE AND STOP THE CONTEMPT
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DO THEY MAKE YOU FEEL SMALL? RECOGNIZE AND STOP THE CONTEMPT

đź”· The hunger to be SEEN
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đź”· The hunger to be SEEN

đź”· The luxury of being ALONE
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đź”· The luxury of being ALONE

When an AVOIDANT & an Empath Both Go NO CONTACT... THIS Happens Next | Daniel Goleman Motivation
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When an AVOIDANT & an Empath Both Go NO CONTACT... THIS Happens Next | Daniel Goleman Motivation

How to Restore a Broken Relationship
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How to Restore a Broken Relationship

đź”· Does change scare you? Because you sabotage the ones you love without realizing it.
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đź”· Does change scare you? Because you sabotage the ones you love without realizing it.

The Wound of the Unloved – When the Past Destroys the Present
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The Wound of the Unloved – When the Past Destroys the Present

đź”· Who do you play when you argue? | The Karpman Drama Triangle
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đź”· Who do you play when you argue? | The Karpman Drama Triangle

This Man Is DESPERATE Because He Lost You... But His PRIDE Is Stopping Him From Making The FIRST ...
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This Man Is DESPERATE Because He Lost You... But His PRIDE Is Stopping Him From Making The FIRST ...

Do THIS and a Narcissist Will Apologize for Hurting You – It Actually Works | DR. RAMANI
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Do THIS and a Narcissist Will Apologize for Hurting You – It Actually Works | DR. RAMANI