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Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2011463/fa...) Feedback is one of the most common parts of veterinary medicine, and also one of the most emotionally loaded. Whether we’re giving it, receiving it, or even anticipating it, these conversations can land in ways that feel tense, personal, or activating. In stressful practice environments, that response isn’t just psychological, it’s physiological. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Bethany Weinheimer, emergency veterinarian, executive leader, and Founder of The Evolved Vets, to explore what’s actually happening beneath the surface of feedback conversations. We talk about the neurobiology of feedback and why the nervous system can interpret even well-intended communication as threat, especially in fast-paced, high-acuity settings. Bethany also shares practical, evidence-informed tools to help regulate the nervous system in the moments before difficult conversations begin. We also dive into how feedback can unintentionally trigger the “Drama Triangle” in workplace dynamics, and how shifting into the more empowered roles of Creator, Challenger, and Coach can change the tone and outcome of these interactions. Finally, we explore the aftermath of feedback conversations, including the “feedback hangover,” and how high achievers can be supported so that critique doesn’t translate into chronic stress or self-judgment. Watch the Video Version of this Episode    • Why Feedback Feels So Threatening in Vet M...   Resources Connect with Dr. Bethany Weinheimer and Evolved Vets on social media @drbeththevet and @evolvedvets  Visit The Evolved Vets website: https://www.evolvedvets.com/   Thank you to our sponsor Scribenote See how Scribenote works: https://www.scribenote.com?utm_campai... Book a Demo: https://calendly.com/d/4zm-dsr-wfh/sc... Start with a Free 14-Day Trial Today: https://app.scribenote.com/auth/regis... Newsletter For more practical pointers and tangible tips related to veterinary mental health and wellbeing, subscribe to our e-newsletter: https://revivingvetmed.kartra.com/pag... Online Resources To access Reviving Veterinary Medicine’s free resources including handouts, posters, meditations, and quizzes, please visit: https://revivingvetmed.com/resources Questions, Suggestions, or Sponsorship Opportunities Email: [email protected]  Thank you to our sponsor Scribenote (https://www.scribenote.com) The first AI-powered veterinary SOAP creator that builds accurate medical records effortlessly. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2011463/su...)

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