How to Know If Mismatched Sex Drives Are a Real Problem

Your desire for sex doesn’t match your partner’s, and now you’re wondering what that difference says about your relationship. Is this a normal part of being together long term, or a sign that something has started to go wrong? Mismatched sex drives are incredibly common, but that doesn’t mean every desire gap should be ignored. Sometimes the difference comes down to spontaneous and responsive desire. Other times, resentment, pressure, and emotional disconnection have started changing the relationship far beyond what happens in the bedroom. In this episode of The RISE to Intimacy Podcast, I explain how to tell when mismatched sex drives are a normal part of a long-term relationship and when the gap has started causing real damage. I also share the signs that tell me a couple may need support and what we actually work on in sex therapy. 2:13 – Why mismatched sex drives do not mean you’re incompatible 3:09 – How spontaneous and responsive desire create a cycle of rejection and pressure 6:14 – Five signs mismatched sex drives may need outside support 10:40 – Why initiating sex more often can make the problem worse 11:19 – Two responses to sexual rejection that damage the relationship 12:25 – What couples work on first in sex therapy 15:34 – What a fulfilling sex life can look like after sex therapy 17:08 – How to tell if mismatched sex drives are normal or a real problem Mentioned In How to Know If Mismatched Sex Drives Are a Real Problem Why People Pleasers Lose Desire and How to Reclaim It (https://www.risetointimacy.com/post/w...) RISE to Intimacy Free 30-Minute Consult (https://www.risetointimacy.com/bookin...) Leave a rating and review (http://ratethispodcast.com/rise)