Love vs Conviction: Should She Give Up Drinking for Marriage? #HMAY Ep. 283

In this video, we respond to a real question from a woman whose boyfriend, a church leader, told her he couldn't marry someone who drinks alcohol, even occasionally. Should she give up something she doesn’t personally believe is wrong in order to honor the man she loves and hopes to marry? Or is that the kind of change that must come from personal conviction, not relationship pressure? If you’ve ever wrestled with different convictions in a relationship, this conversation is for you. Drop your thoughts in the comments: Should someone change something like this for the person they love? Chapters 1:15 Chocolate baby story time 6:11 Get Mentored by us 10:01 My boyfriend couldn’t be married to someone who drinks 12:58 Our Advice 27:44 Scripture 29:46 Health Talk 31:45 How this relates to us 43:22 How Married Are You?! 48:48 Which beat do you like best? Resources & Links Ember mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍 https://bit.ly/4lfn38i Mentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤 https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7 Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛 https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/... Release Rest Remain 📖✨ https://a.co/d/ihBmSdO Father Yourself First 📘🔥 https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yoursel... She met a man who seemed thoughtful, ambitious, and serious about his career. They talked every day, visited each other, and built a connection. But when she asked where things were going… he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Two weeks later… he came back saying he wanted a relationship. Should she give him a second chance or not? Yvette’s Email List 💌🌿 https://yvettehenry.com/join-the-list Release Rest Remain Bible Reading Plan 🙏🏽📖 https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plan... Premarital Advantage 💍🧠 https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykaj... Black Men’s Meeting 🖤🗣️ https://partiful.com/e/kuXEBUC7PHfydR... ? HMAY Amazon Storefront (affiliate) 🛒✨ https://www.amazon.com/shop/howmarrie... WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon:   / hmay   Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast:   / howmarriedareyou   Glen:   / beleafmel   Yvette:   / mrsmelanin   Chocolate Babes:   / chocolatebabies   WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD:    / beleafinfatherhoodtv   Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!