You WILL Project Your Past Onto Your Partner. #HMAY Ep. 288

How do you keep your past from ruining your present? In this episode,,we respond to a newlywed wrestling with a real question: How do you not project what you saw growing up onto your marriage? And the truth is… you probably will. We talk about: Why projection is almost unavoidable in relationships How to recognize when it’s happening The difference between your partner’s behavior vs. your past wounds Why therapy, mentors, and self-awareness matter How childhood experiences shape how you love, trust, and fear We also unpack the deeper layer: Are you raising children… or trying to heal your inner child through them? Good Fathers Jacket: https://shop.temicoker.co/products/go... Code: GoodFathersMatter Resources & Links Ember mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍 https://bit.ly/4lfn38i Mentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤 https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7 Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛 https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/... Release Rest Remain 📖✨ https://a.co/d/ihBmSdO Father Yourself First 📘🔥 https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yoursel... Yvette’s Email List 💌🌿 https://yvettehenry.com/join-the-list Release Rest Remain Bible Reading Plan 🙏🏽📖 https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plan... Premarital Advantage 💍🧠 https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykaj... Black Men’s Meeting 🖤🗣️ https://partiful.com/e/kuXEBUC7PHfydR... ? HMAY Amazon Storefront (affiliate) 🛒✨ https://www.amazon.com/shop/howmarrie... WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon:   / hmay   Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast:   / howmarriedareyou   Glen:   / beleafmel   Yvette:   / mrsmelanin   Chocolate Babes:   / chocolatebabies   WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD:    / beleafinfatherhoodtv   Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!