When Does Healthy Dependence Become Co-Dependence?

It's a confusing message: you should be vulnerable and open up to the risk that your partner could hurt you, but also that too much dependence risks tipping over into unhealthy co-dependence, merger, and the loss of a decent sense of self. So where is that sweet spot, and how do you know if you're falling too far on either end of the spectrum of independence/co-dependence? Matt and Graham try to make sense of all this in a somewhat free-flowing, going-all-over-the-place episode of Crazy In Love. If you like what we're doing, subscribe and leave us a review!

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