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If you want to be surrounded by smart, disciplined, striving, caring people, then join our Community ⬇ Simple Community: https://prosto.social/ Links to sources: A 35-year study on cesarean sections: http://pediatrics.aappublications.org... Another one about cesarean and asthma: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama... Another one about cesarean and immunodeficiency: https://link.springer.com/article/10.... Statistics on Millenials: http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2014/0... Stress Among Millenials: https://www.apa.org/news/press/releas... Not a single person in the history of mankind has been able to avoid suffering. Already at the very beginning of our journey, before we are born, we pass through the birth canal of our mother. During birth, we are under extreme pressure, from a nice, cozy little house we are immersed in an environment of colossal loads, we do not have enough oxygen, our head is squeezed, and our body is pushed. But no matter how terrible all this sounds, we need it. Birth stress makes the baby's body produce a huge amount of hormones, endorphins and biologically active substances, preparing it for an aggressive environment. If for some reason a child is deprived of this stress, for example, if a caesarean section is performed, he is born a little unprepared. For example, in 2015, scientists analyzed data for 35 years and found that children born by caesarean section have a significantly higher risk of asthma, systematic connective tissue disorders, juvenile arthritis, inflammatory bowel disease, immunodeficiency and leukemia. Our life begins with pain and it cannot be avoided. Moreover, it is harmful to avoid it. Jean-Jacques Rousseau said: "To suffer is the first thing a child must learn, this is what he will need to know most of all. He who breathes and who thinks must cry." However, modern people are convinced of the opposite. We are brought up very gently, in a refined environment of absolute calm. In the West, they even came up with a term: Millennials. These are people born after 1981, in an environment of extreme comfort. People who were systematically deprived of suffering since childhood. They were protected from difficulties in every possible way, they were bought everything they wanted, left to their own devices and not punished. As a result, we have adult children who are unable to solve problems. They live with their parents until they are 35, they are very capricious, they do not get a job, and when they do, they look for freebies everywhere, earn less than their ancestors and suffer from stress more than others. Their parents thought that it was better to protect the child from unnecessary pain, but in fact they created helpless people doomed to even greater suffering. I see the same thing in our countries, children become weaklings, prone to dictatorship, they avoid difficulties, and society does not consider it necessary to provide them with these difficulties, modern society deprives us of hardening, we become soft. And all because we have forgotten how progress happens. Progress happens under pressure. The shock of birth is necessary to build immunity, the difficulties of adolescence prepare us for the great things we will do in the future, and the midlife crisis provides the wisdom of old age. And this idea is found in all cultures, religions and philosophies of the world. Christ is first born, then he is crucified, and then he is resurrected. And this is the basis, the foundation for the development of any system. Thus, the Bible, from a psychological point of view, shows how your whole life will go. Happiness, suffering, transformation. You can deprive yourself of happiness, but suffering is an integral stage. That is why I am always surprised when people avoid pain, close their eyes, as if there are no problems. Some even say that we are created only for happiness, but this is not true. Life is not avoiding suffering. It is a path on which you learn to effectively solve problems. If you are afraid of something, then do not avoid it, but become bolder. If your arms are weak, it's not a ban on weights - it's a sign that it's time to train. If difficulties are chasing you, it means you're running away from them. When faced with a problem, the first thing you need to do is straighten your back, grit your teeth and get to work on solving it. #pain #motivation #simplethoughts