Warum deine Partnersuche scheitert – und wie du es ändern kannst!

In this video, I explain what directly leads to failure in online dating and what can be done to change this. My video is based on our analysis of 19 years of dating on our platform and is supplemented by psychological studies. The problem: Most people's basic ideas about online dating are completely misguided. The same applies to media coverage. This all benefits the big dating giants, whose goal is not to find a partner, but to keep people trapped in endless dating cycles that, for the vast majority, do not lead to a satisfying relationship. This explains precisely why the rate of involuntary singles is constantly rising, at a time when dating apps offer us more opportunities to connect than ever before. The sobering realization from this video is that the rate of singles is rising not despite dating apps, but because of them. Unfortunately, no one seems to realize this, and so everyone keeps wanting more of this harmful medicine. : ... But there's also a positive message: By understanding the actual processes involved and having a clear strategy, we can still make our online relationship a success. This video explains how! FURTHER RESOURCES https://www.gfgebauer.de: My coaching website - Schedule a one-on-one appointment with me, and we'll review your relationship and dating history together to help you reach your relationship goals. https://www.gleichklang.de: Become a member of my dating platform, which has been connecting people with shared values ​​for 19 years. https://www.buch-partnersuche.de: Purchase and read my book on the psychology of online dating. LITERATURE I used the following literature for my video: Bauman, Z. (2013). Liquid love: On the frailty of human bonds. John Wiley & Sons. Pronk, T. M., & Denissen, J. J. A. (2020). A rejection mind-set: Choice overload in online dating. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 11 (3), 388–396. Thomas, M. F., Binder, A., & Matthes, J. (2022). The agony of partner choice: The effect of excessive partner availability on fear of being single, self-esteem, and partner choice overload. Computers in Human Behavior, 126, 106977. Wu, P. L., & Chiou, W. B. (2009). More options lead to more searching and worse choices in finding partners for romantic relationships online: An experimental study. CyberPsychology & Behavior, 12(3), 315-318.