你有吸渣體質嗎：共依存者與自戀者為何糾纏、如何擺脫？ with @RossRosenberg ｜Sherry's Notes 雪力的心理學筆記

👉 Featured Book in This Episode: The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap by Ross Rosenberg https://bookstw.link/6v6c99 👉 Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:47 What is the Human Magnet Syndrome? How the author’s personal experience inspired his work 04:32 #Codependents vs. #Narcissists — Do you have a broken picker when it comes to relationships? 07:03 Three personality disorders related to narcissism 08:20 How do healthy people vs. codependents respond to narcissists? 09:46 What is limerence? 11:21 When limerence fades, how do healthy people and codependents react differently? 12:51 Does limerence last longer in codependent–narcissist relationships? 14:19 Why do we repeatedly fall into toxic relationships? The codependent’s “denial” 16:53 The root of codependency: core shame 18:06 How to rescue yourself or help someone else break free from toxic patterns 19:44 Are there specific personality traits that make someone more likely to attract narcissists or codependents? 22:39 Narcissists and the psychology of cult leaders / one-on-one cults 24:59 Could anyone be vulnerable to narcissistic or cult-like manipulation? 27:50 How to tell if you're in a dysfunctional relationship 30:15 Projection: Narcissists may accuse others of traits they dislike in themselves 32:37 As a survivor of codependency, what the author wants to say to those still struggling — Hi, I’m Sherry — an organizational consultant, executive coach, content creator, and writer. I’m also a psychologist-in-progress, working toward a more inclusive world. 👉 About Me: https://linktr.ee/sherrysnotes 👉 Contact: [email protected] 👉 Support my work & become a member: https://bit.ly/46NiF8Q