“We Respond to Crazy Pastor Clips” Pallooza! Did an Incel Say it, or a Pastor?

Our Patreon!   / baremarriage   Episode 308 of Bare Marriage: Keith and I went through 11 clips from evangelical influencers and pastors that have been driving people crazy all yearWe break down why Josh Howerton's claims about conservative mental health don't hold up, why blaming women for divorce is absurd, and how complementarian teaching about male authority actually contradicts what Jesus taught. If you've ever felt gaslit by marriage teaching in church, this episode will help you understand why—and give you permission to trust your gut that something's very wrong. *JOIN OUR FUNDRAISING CAMPAIGN!* Help us raise money to fund our research, our new podcast docuseries, and our translation projects! Give through the Good Fruit Faith Initiative (tax deductible within the United States): https://baremarriage.com/give-through... or join our Patreon!   / baremarriage   *RESOURCES MENTIONED* The Whole Story puberty course: https://baremarriage.com/the-whole-st... The Marriage You Want: https://amzn.to/4a4n7Em Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to respond to pastors and friends: https://baremarriage.com/toolkit *TO SUPPORT US* Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work   / baremarriage   Donate through the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation: https://baremarriage.com/give-through... And check out our Merch, or any of our courses! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/ SIGN UP for our weekly emails--Rebecca writes them, and they're amazing! https://baremarriage.com/join-the-new... *LINKS MENTIONED* The 2025 study on conservativism and mental health: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles... The 2015 study on conservatives reporting but liberals displaying greater happiness: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25766... The 2021 study on women having worse health in sexist churches: https://www.asanet.org/wp-content/upl... Our peer reviewed study on women's sexual health in conservative spaces: https://academic.oup.com/socrel/advan... Our podcast on why women seek divorce: https://baremarriage.com/2023/11/podc... Our article responding to Josh Howerton's claims that conservatives have better marriages: https://baptistnews.com/article/do-co... Josh McPherson Feminism ruins everything: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQ0NOg... John Lovell my wife is not in charge: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQ2hBR... Mark Driscoll kids can’t be priority:   / 741490314969399   Josh Howerton on Islam:    • Pastor's wife speaks *TRUTH* to progressiv...   Report on Child Marriage in the US: https://www.unchainedatlast.org/unite... Report on Child Marriage in Canada: https://www.mcgill.ca/newsroom/channe... TPU telling young women "it's all your fault":   / dq2cwhuke_j   Rachel Jankovic husband doesn’t help:    • Is This Why Your Husband Won't Help? | Rac...   *TIMELINE* 00:00 Introduction 03:30 Josh Howerton on Mental Health 16:15 Turning Point USA to women: "It's all your fault" 23:00 Mark Driscoll on Why Women Need to Prioritize Husband Over Kids 27:20 Jana Howerton Thinks Women Were Created Just to Nurture their Husbands and Children? 32:04 Pastors Josh McPherson & John Lovell Sound like Incels 35:36 Josh & Jana Howerton Talk About Why They Think Women File for Divorce 39:46 Josh Howerton’s Terrible Take on Therapy 45:51 Rachel Jancovic On Why So Many Women Struggle With Feeling Unsupported By Their Husbands 50:11 Josh Howerton Uses Fundamentalist Islam to Attack Women 1:02:47 John Lovell Is The Authority In His Marriage - But the Bible Never Tells Him To Take That Role 1:13:50 Christmas, Incarnation & What Faith in Jesus Really Means