人生で本当に大切なことはたった一つしかない【ブッダの教え】

Details and registration for the public lectures are available here. If you are interested, please register here. ------ Osaka https://kikutani.hp.peraichi.com/sinn... Hiroshima https://kikutani.hp.peraichi.com/sapporo ------ There's a saying, "Parents' education is the last education a child receives." We learn many things from various people—school teachers, cram school instructors, club seniors, company superiors, friends, colleagues—but above all, we learn the most from our parents. From the start of life, we learn everything from table manners, cleaning methods, greetings, and responses from our parents. Even our native language becomes the language our parents use. If our parents speak Kansai dialect, their children will also speak Kansai dialect. Children learn the weight of responsibility that comes with working by watching their working parents. Eventually, as parents grow old, children learn what "aging" is like through caring for them. And one day, when a parent "dies," it is through witnessing their passing that we learn what "death" truly means. "My father worked so hard and suffered so much, and in the end, he was emaciated like a withered tree from illness... What was my father's life all about?" "My mother died with that expression on her face, what did she want to tell us?" The sight of a parent dying confronts children with the solemn reality of life, prompting them to deeply consider, "What does it mean to live?" This is the "final lesson" we learn from our parents. How we receive this "final lesson from our parents" changes the course of our lives. Shinran Shonin lost his father when he was four years old and his mother when he was eight. Shinran Shonin lived a life that can be described as "full of ups and downs," and it could be said that he was hit by fierce waves right from the start of his life. Matsuwakamaru (later known as Shinran Shonin) was stunned by the suddenness of death, realizing how quickly death could come. His mother, who had just moments before been gently stroking his cheek with warm hands and speaking to him with kind eyes, suddenly closed her eyes, the color drained from her face, her hands grew cold, and she was gone forever. At that time, Matsuwakamaru was eight years old, so he must have longed, "Where did Daddy go? Where did Mumma go? I want to see Daddy. I want to see Mumma." Matsuwakamaru then pondered his own fate. "Daddy died, Mumma died. It's my turn to die next. Where will I go after I die?" He seriously considered what would happen after his death, and was shocked by the bleak future. In this world, even when a father dies, a mother dies, a husband dies, a wife dies, or a child dies before the parent, there are people who dismiss it all as someone else's problem, stubbornly believing they are still far from dying, and who do not consider their own inevitable fate. Matsuwakamaru was different. The deaths of his parents prompted him to confront the grave issue of his own life and death, and he was so determined to resolve this great problem that he knocked on the door of Abbot Jichin of Mount Hiei. He was nine years old. ----------------------------------------------------------------- "Understanding Buddhism" Official LINE Account Here ----------------------------------------------------------------- • Updates on videos and columns • Mini-corner explaining Buddhist terms in simple terms • Exclusive projects for LINE friends, etc. ▼"Understanding Buddhism" Official LINE Account Here https://lin.ee/GbzwYBX ----------------------------------------------------------------- 20-Lesson Free Email Course Here ----------------------------------------------------------------- https://peraichi.com/landing_pages/vi... ↑The free email course reveals the answer to the "meaning of life" as taught in Buddhism. Those who register will receive a bonus booklet, "5 Common Sense Mistakes That Prevent You from Being Happy"! ----------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel here -----------------------------------------------------------------    / @bybuddhism   ----------------------------------------------------------------- Community where you can ask questions to Ryuta Kikutani "Reiwa Gobou" ----------------------------------------------------------------- https://reiwagobou.com/ ----------------------------------------------------------------- Self-introduction ----------------------------------------------------------------- I dropped out of Waseda University in 1988 to pursue a career as a Buddhist lecturer. I obtained a Buddhist lecturer qualification from the Jodo Shinshu Shinran Association and began giving public lectures throughout Japan. Since 2010, I have been writing an email newsletter, which has 12,000 readers and is one of the largest Buddhist email newsletters. Since 2014, I have also been active in providing vid...

「こんな時はがんばるな」3つの理由【仏教の教え】
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「こんな時はがんばるな」3つの理由【仏教の教え】

【人生】周囲のピリピリ、上司の些細な一言 全部まともに受け止めて「鬱」になってしまう 頭で考え続けるのをやめ、自分の心を最速で守る 圧倒的な方法|大愚和尚の一問一答
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【人生】周囲のピリピリ、上司の些細な一言 全部まともに受け止めて「鬱」になってしまう 頭で考え続けるのをやめ、自分の心を最速で守る 圧倒的な方法|大愚和尚の一問一答

【笑い飯・哲夫さん】から学ぶ「仏教」の奥深い世界!“嫉妬”“執着”“煩悩”“怒り”から解放される凄まじい思考とは?ゲストを招いてトークする新企画始動!【渦の細道①】
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【笑い飯・哲夫さん】から学ぶ「仏教」の奥深い世界!“嫉妬”“執着”“煩悩”“怒り”から解放される凄まじい思考とは?ゲストを招いてトークする新企画始動!【渦の細道①】

【安藤礼二が語る】空海が残した芸術と思想
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【安藤礼二が語る】空海が残した芸術と思想

法話会 支え 支えられて 「諸法無我」
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法話会 支え 支えられて 「諸法無我」

The biggest problem in life that we realize when we are about to die [Buddha's teachings]
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The biggest problem in life that we realize when we are about to die [Buddha's teachings]

The Buddha's teachings clearly state that one should not compare oneself to others.
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The Buddha's teachings clearly state that one should not compare oneself to others.

付き合っていい人・いけない人の「4つの判断基準」
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付き合っていい人・いけない人の「4つの判断基準」

「人生の目的」をハッキリと教えられた歎異抄 「無碍の一道」とは何か。
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「人生の目的」をハッキリと教えられた歎異抄 「無碍の一道」とは何か。

「暇」が人生を狂わせる
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「暇」が人生を狂わせる

[For Anyone] Habits That Will Make You Incredibly Lucky [Teachings of the Buddha]
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[For Anyone] Habits That Will Make You Incredibly Lucky [Teachings of the Buddha]

I dislike people, so life is difficult for me. What should I do? [Advice from Buddhism]
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I dislike people, so life is difficult for me. What should I do? [Advice from Buddhism]

右脳を解放してわかった人生を楽に生きる方法【 都市伝説 ネドじゅん 】
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右脳を解放してわかった人生を楽に生きる方法【 都市伝説 ネドじゅん 】

Why Christianity did not spread in Japan [Buddhist teachings]
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Why Christianity did not spread in Japan [Buddhist teachings]

【人生】人の幸せを素直に喜べない… 「良い人のふり」を何十年も演じ続け、1人になるとドッと疲れてしまう 自分の醜さを認めて心が劇的に軽くなる処方箋|大愚和尚の一問一答
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【人生】人の幸せを素直に喜べない… 「良い人のふり」を何十年も演じ続け、1人になるとドッと疲れてしまう 自分の醜さを認めて心が劇的に軽くなる処方箋|大愚和尚の一問一答

「地獄に堕ちるわよ」仏教の正しい意味を解説します
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「地獄に堕ちるわよ」仏教の正しい意味を解説します

【75~85歳で差がつく】今もできている?この5つで“尊敬される老後”が決まる
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【75~85歳で差がつく】今もできている?この5つで“尊敬される老後”が決まる

Common characteristics of people whose lives are spiraling downwards, and how to escape this fate...
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Common characteristics of people whose lives are spiraling downwards, and how to escape this fate...

The true nature of loneliness in later life [Buddhist teachings]
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The true nature of loneliness in later life [Buddhist teachings]

心身の健康を取り戻すための3つの処方箋
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心身の健康を取り戻すための3つの処方箋