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There are people who clearly feel you like them, yet distance themselves whenever you try to get closer. They are avoidant types. We will explore, using experimental data, how their mindset actually works and how they open up. If they started distancing themselves right after the relationship was at its best, it is highly likely that it is not your fault. From the true inner thoughts of avoidant types revealed by attachment experiments in the 1970s, to how to distinguish them from "fishing" (playing the field), and the conditions under which their hearts open up. Contents covered in this video: · 3 criteria to distinguish between "fishing" and avoidant types · Strange Situation Experiment: The truth revealed by the heart rates of seemingly nonchalant babies · Why someone who was initially active suddenly withdraws (Deactivation strategy) · 4 conditions under which an avoidant type's heart opens · The single criterion for deciding whether to continue or end a relationship References: · Ainsworth, M. D. S., Blehar, M. C., Waters, E., & Wall, S. (1978). Patterns of Attachment. Erlbaum. · Spangler, G., & Grossmann, K. E. (1993). Biobehavioral organization in securely and insecurely attached infants. Child Development, 64(5), 1439–1450. · Hazan, C., & Shaver, P. (1987). Romantic love conceptualized as an attachment process. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 52(3), 511–524. · Mikulincer, M., & Shaver, P. R. (2016). Attachment in Adulthood (2nd ed.). Guilford Press. #Avoidant #Love Psychology #Psychology