Психолог Гюлизар Махмудова о семьях на Кавказе, абьюзе и силе выбора #психология #интервью #семья

Our Telegram channel: @arasskajite Our VK group: https://vk.com/club233645980 "A woman's freedom is not debauchery" 😤 Gulzar is a successful psychologist originally from Dagestan. She doesn't tell you how to "survive at any cost." She explains how to live freely, even if you grew up in a culture where divorce is shameful and patience is a virtue. In this interview, we touched on the most important issues: 💬 Why Gulzar chose to work specifically on violence, even though she hasn't experienced abuse in her personal life. This is a conscious choice by a professional who sees the pain of the system from within. 🏠 How Dagestani families are changing: what fades into the past, what remains forever, and why this is normal. 🛑 Specific signs of abusive relationships that are often mistaken for "love" or "a strong character." 📋 Real stories of women whom Gulzar helped leave. What barriers were the most difficult—not only external, but also internal. 🔥 Main message: you are not obligated to save someone who is destroying you. And this is not a betrayal of your family—it is self-care. This conversation is without judgment, without pathos, with respect for Caucasian roots and the belief that a happy family is possible without violence. Enjoy watching! And don't forget to leave your opinion in the comments. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - About Caucasian families 04:50 - How mothers marry off their drug-addicted sons 06:42 - Codependency in the family 08:40 - Women in the Caucasus don't suffer in good relationships 10:30 - About the basket-shaped sons of the Caucasus 12:55 - A new generation of women 18:45 - Why you shouldn't tolerate bad relationships? 24:50 - How to change the family system? 25:40 - Relationships involving violence 31:05 - Strong women and greedy men 33:50 - Real manly actions 38:08 - Patriarchal attitudes