Living in the first person after narcissistic abuse

In today's video, let's look at how the scapegoat child overrides their instinct to flee a narcissistic parent. The child does this by caring more about what the parent thinks of them than what the child thinks of themselves. I will describe how this strategy helps the child survive. As adaptive as the strategy is, it later robs the scapegoat survivor of living their lives in the first person. Last, we'll discuss a way to learn that relationships no longer require you to adopt the other's mind as your own. If you're ready to put yourself first, you can start by signing up for my 7 Self-Care Tools for Scapegoat Survivors Webinar to learn how to protect yourself from further abuse 👉https://lp.jreidtherapy.com/webinar-r... Also, check out my FREE book on Surviving Narcissistic Abuse as the Scapegoat to help you better understand the nature of the abuse and use it as a springboard to your recovery process 👉https://lp.jreidtherapy.com/optin?utm... Lastly, if you’re ready to commit to your recovery, check out my Map to Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse Course for a structured and clear path towards healing and recovery 👉https://lp.jreidtherapy.com/narcissis... #jayreid #jayreidpsychotherapy

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