When Getting Better Feels Like 'Selling Out' After Narcissistic Abuse
In today's video, I address the impact of a narcissistic parent who masks their abusive treatment as something that is for the child's own good. For example, yelling at the child for not having proper table manners at dinner. This sets the survivor up to later resent doing things that are otherwise good to do. They can feel like they are betraying themselves. Recovery eventually allows the survivor to see how they were betrayed in what the parent did to them not what they are doing to themselves. I will use an extended case example to illustrate. A link to a Published Book on Narcissistic Abuse: Growing Up as the Scapegoat to a Narcissistic Parent: A Guide to Healing https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BXN2287H A link to my online course to Recover from Narcissistic Abuse: https://jreidtherapy.com/narcissistic... The link to my free webinar on '7 Self-Care Tools to Recover from Narcissistic Abuse':https://jreidtherapy.com/webinar-self... Here's the link to my e-book on Surviving Narcissistic Abuse as the Scapegoat: https://jreidtherapy.com/ebook-scapeg... Youtube series on Shame in recovery from Narcissistic Abuse: • The role of shame in surviving narcissisti... Private Facebook Support Group that Accompanies the Online Course: / recoverynarcabuse Take the narcissistic emotional abuse quiz: https://jreidtherapy.com/quiz/narc-ab... Schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation: https://jreidtherapy.com/book-now Subscribe to my channel: / @jreid-heal-narcissistic-abuse #jayreidpsychotherapy

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