🔴ABBANDONO: perché per molti è un disastro?

We could spend hours on the topic of abandonment suffered by a partner, it is so vast and there are so many nuances. It is a thorny topic to deal with for a coach like me, as it often brings with it disabling emotional discomfort, which only psychologists, psychotherapists and, in the most extreme cases, psychiatrists can intervene on. In my practice I can only help people who do not experience the disabling dimension, that is, those who do not experience discomfort at every moment of the day or night, those who manage to maintain good control of the quality of their life. During the first interview, a few dozen minutes are enough for me to understand if the problem has entered the dimension of generalized discomfort and in these cases I withdraw, recommending the client a more qualified professional, for an ethical issue. However, it is a topic that is often brought to me and that I know quite well, having studied its possible nuances, even the most devastating ones, on which, as I said, I cannot intervene. In this episode I'll tell you something about abandonment, from the point of view of a coach, hoping to clarify a fundamental concept, namely that in cases of disabling discomfort which tends to last for too many months and extremely affects the quality of one's thoughts and life in general, it is really better to contact a psychotherapist to help you get out of it. Towards the end of the episode I will suggest a book that I found enlightening on this topic and which could be very useful for you to be more aware of what can happen in the case of an immediate abandonment. Good vision!