Desorganisierter Bindungsstil: Kampf zwischen Herz & Nervensystem

Do you desire closeness, love, and connection, but are you afraid of it at the same time? Do you recognize yourself in the phrase: "I want you, but I'm afraid to get closer to you?" Do you withdraw even though you've just let someone get closer to you? Then it's quite possible that you suffer from a disorganized attachment style without even knowing it. In my new video, I talk about an attachment style that makes love life almost impossible for many people, especially if they come from toxic relationships, emotional neglect, or childhood trauma. The disorganized attachment style has nothing to do with a personal weakness or character trait. It is a deeply rooted reaction of your nervous system to early experiences of excessive demands, insecurity, or even violence in relationships, which usually originate in childhood. The painful thing about it is that you long for love, but as soon as someone really gets closer to you, an alarm system goes off inside you. Your body wants to flee, but your heart wants to stay. Your inner back and forth, your emotional ambivalence, can be very exhausting. and confusing. In my video, you'll learn: 🗝️ what the disorganized attachment style really is 🗝️ how and why it develops, especially after emotional trauma in childhood 🗝️ what specific signs you can recognize in your relationship behavior 🗝️ what you can specifically do to figure out what you really need and how to learn to bond securely again I wish you wonderful inspiration🙏🏼 From Heart to Heart Tanja P.S. Since I'm not at my usual location, the video quality is a little worse than usual. Thank you for your understanding. ___________________________________________________________________________________________________ ⭕️ Registration for the 3rd Women's Circle on June 21st from 9:30 a.m. - 11:00 a.m. (💫🌹Summer Solstice) Connected in Change - Women's Circle for Healing & Wisdom Cycle Awareness, Trauma Healing & Returning to Your Own Feminine Power https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/regis... 💎 Non-binding 60-minute Clearing Call: https://www.tanjahummel.com/session-b... ❤️NEW: My Masterclasses for purchase https://www.tanjahummel.com/shop/mast... Follow me here: 🌟 You can get my weekly Somatic Love Letter here: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6343c8... 🌟 Telegram Group: https://t.me/+G6Y_5vdWzEk0NDU1 🌟 My website: www.tanjahummel.com

Anxious attachment style: Authenticity is the key
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Anxious attachment style: Authenticity is the key

Desorganisierte Bindung: Verhaltensmuster und Lösungswege
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Desorganisierte Bindung: Verhaltensmuster und Lösungswege

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Der desorganisierte Bindungsstil (2) - Woran erkennt man ihn? - Symbiose - Scham und Schuld

When loyalty costs you your dignity in toxic relationships!
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When loyalty costs you your dignity in toxic relationships!

CHOSEN ONE!! YOUR IDENTITY REVEAL JUST SHOOK THE INTERNET... AND THEIR MINDS
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CHOSEN ONE!! YOUR IDENTITY REVEAL JUST SHOOK THE INTERNET... AND THEIR MINDS

You've abandoned yourself and how you can reconnect with yourself!
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You've abandoned yourself and how you can reconnect with yourself!

Disorganized attachment style: The most complex & painful attachment form
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Disorganized attachment style: The most complex & painful attachment form

Der Bindungsstil über den niemand spricht: Die desorganisierte Bindung
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Der Bindungsstil über den niemand spricht: Die desorganisierte Bindung

Trauma Therapist: Why You React to Things That Are Long Over – Verena König
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Trauma Therapist: Why You React to Things That Are Long Over – Verena König

This Post Office Was Totally Out of Control | 100% Cat Mail Co.
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This Post Office Was Totally Out of Control | 100% Cat Mail Co.

Attachment hunger: The insatiable urge for emotional closeness from childhood.
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Attachment hunger: The insatiable urge for emotional closeness from childhood.

Der desorganisierte Bindungsstil (1) - Ursachen und Kennzeichen
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Der desorganisierte Bindungsstil (1) - Ursachen und Kennzeichen

5 Signs of Genuine Relationship Capacity 💖 and How to Recognize Them
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5 Signs of Genuine Relationship Capacity 💖 and How to Recognize Them

What is really behind the emotional withdrawal of the avoider (5 true reasons)?
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What is really behind the emotional withdrawal of the avoider (5 true reasons)?

Why you keep attracting the wrong man – even though you know everything!
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Why you keep attracting the wrong man – even though you know everything!

NO CONTACT mit dem DESORGANISIERTEN/ÄNGSTL.VERMEIDENDEN hat er/sie dich schon vergessen?
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NO CONTACT mit dem DESORGANISIERTEN/ÄNGSTL.VERMEIDENDEN hat er/sie dich schon vergessen?

5 Signs Your Nervous System Is Healing (Even If It Doesn't Feel Like It)
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5 Signs Your Nervous System Is Healing (Even If It Doesn't Feel Like It)

Repulsion/disgust/no more feelings, the disorganized/anxious-avoidant attachment style
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Repulsion/disgust/no more feelings, the disorganized/anxious-avoidant attachment style

Stefanie Stahl #37 | Can I have fear of commitment and fear of loss at the same time? | That's ju...
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Stefanie Stahl #37 | Can I have fear of commitment and fear of loss at the same time? | That's ju...

The biggest lie about avoiders that no one tells you (understanding commitment phobia)
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The biggest lie about avoiders that no one tells you (understanding commitment phobia)